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Keep in mind I’m a married adult completely independent of my parents.

Anyway, I stopped by their house today and they both started pestering me about recent socio-political and religious view changes my husband and I have had since we got married.

They’re upset we’ve gone more traditional (Anglican) and think we’re “going down the wrong path” (they’re boomer-brained evangelicals who couldn’t care less about tradition or Church authority). They think my husband is a “tyrant” (he leads and I follow, the way it should be). They basically shot down every explanation I had for them about my current views of the church, polity, sacraments, etc.

Then the jews came up.

Now, I’m not exactly *quiet* about (((them))) but I don’t go out of my way to talk about them either. Just a remark here or there. Well, they think I have “bitterness and hate” in my heart. They think my views on them are unfounded. They think I’m not educated about the situation.

Not really sure what to do about this. I stormed out before I said anything I would’ve regretted. My mom already apologized via text. But I’m obviously really upset and distraught about how they’re handling my rapid shift toward traditional values.

Have you guys been in this situation before? How in the world do I handle this? How do I not disappoint my own parents?
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bobdole96 on scored.co
1 year ago 26 points (+0 / -0 / +26Score on mirror ) 1 child
You're making a new family. You were part of theirs, but time has moved on. You're happy, you are not responsible for your parent's happiness.

Since they brought up being "uneducated", ask them about the Smith-Mundt Act or Smith-Mundt Modernization Act and why it's important. Would be a real shame they were uneducated that propaganda was banned, then unbanned, so the government can say whatever it wants; facts don't matter.
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Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 17 points (+0 / -0 / +17Score on mirror )
That’s what I’m trying to tell myself. Obviously going to continue to love and respect my parents and visit on occasion. But I’ve cleaved to my husband and now we’re our own family unit.
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TallestSkil on scored.co
1 year ago 23 points (+0 / -0 / +23Score on mirror ) 1 child
>Then the jews came up.

>…they think I have “bitterness and hate” in my heart.

>How in the world do I handle this?

Tell them to look up (themselves), in order, Galatians 3:16, Galatians 3:29, John 19:15, 1 John 2:23, Matthew 21:43, Luke 13:28, and 1 Thessalonians 2:14-16.

Wish blessings on them, but if you have to cut them off–or if they do the same to you–seek comfort in God and in your husband.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 9 points (+0 / -0 / +9Score on mirror ) 4 children
They’re aware, they just have boomer logic…
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systemthrowaway on scored.co
1 year ago 13 points (+0 / -0 / +13Score on mirror )
In other words they are aware but feelings are easier than thoughts.
RealWildRanter on scored.co
1 year ago 6 points (+0 / -0 / +6Score on mirror ) 1 child
Reading is hard when readers have their eyes closed. Tell them to watch this movie:

https://scored.co/p/19AduXtp9Z/x/c/

Regarding your main question. God put your parents together for a reason. To have and raise you so you could marry your husband. Have faith, have children, and teach them your faith. Anything else is a distraction.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror ) 1 child
Very true, thanks for the input. They’ve definitely seen it, but I haven’t. I’ll definitely be watching it this year.
RealWildRanter on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
You're most welcome. Maybe you should watch it in family with your parents sometime during this Lent. Maybe a miracle happens and at least they'll start to hate the jews like proper Christians.
BeefyBelisarius on scored.co
1 year ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror ) 1 child
And that's why you need to stop trying to debate them, because it doesn't work. When you try to argue with the boomer-brained, you're just arguing with the TV they watch.

Instead, simply tell them you refuse to debate politics or religion with them and if that doesn't get through, tell them their grandkids won't be around them much if they keep trying to control you.

Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror )
Smart. I definitely gotta work on bridling my tongue
kalerg_plan on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror ) 1 child
Their Boomer logic was implanted into them by Scofield. Teach them about the Scofield Bible.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror )
Oh I’m very aware. My mom was like “you can’t hate them, they’re God’s chosen people!” It infuriated me so much that legitimately screamed “NO THEY ARE NOT. WE ARE”. She did not like that response lol
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MI7BZ3EW on scored.co
1 year ago 11 points (+0 / -0 / +11Score on mirror ) 2 children
My 2 cents: Stick to your guns. Don't let them get you emotional. Your goal isn't to change their beliefs or ideas, but to maintain a healthy relationship with them as you pursue your goals with your family.

Tell them what is most important to you and just let them know that you're not going to budge on those things. Tell them what you want them to do.

Finally, let them know that whether they choose to fight you or help you you'll still love them regardless.
Alexius_von_Meinong on scored.co
1 year ago 8 points (+0 / -0 / +8Score on mirror )
This is the way. It's not always easy to show love in the midst of disagreement, but this is what it means to be an adult. Also, it can be thankless to show love in the midst of disagreement, but we must do it anyway, even if that love is rejected.
PillarOfWisdom on scored.co
1 year ago 5 points (+0 / -0 / +5Score on mirror )
Exactly! We have to take a stand on what we believe. I've seen the light and know the truth. They are unwilling to accept the truth.
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LesboPregnancyScare on scored.co
1 year ago 11 points (+0 / -0 / +11Score on mirror ) 1 child
the jew offered boomers mamon in exchange for his country, his community, his family, his religion, his institutions, everything. And he profited immensely from this exchange.

Now those very institutions that made him rich are outsourcing their jobs overseas or have instituted discriminatory hiring practices against his own children. When the boomers own children struggle financially, and notice there is a religion sized hole in their lives and attempt to fill it with a guiding religion, the boomer lashes out in a final denial lest they realize the exchange they made long ago was a big mistake.

There is nothing you can do. When the boomers die, the TV and MSM stranglehold on their psyche will die with it.
Kopkot on scored.co
1 year ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror ) 1 child
The Jew offers the same choice for all of us. Most gen x and millenials are the exact same when it comes to selling everything out of shekels and circuses.

We are fortunate to have access to alternate information enough to see through it.
LesboPregnancyScare on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
zoomers and younger millenials do not get that exhange, there is nothing for them. no money - it has been inflated away, housing costs are too high for them to buy, and the importation of brownoids and H1B pajeets and chinx that every job has depresed wages. And exhange that for what? For a society that already is down on them? The boomers sold out their children and grandchildren.
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detransthrowaway on scored.co
1 year ago 10 points (+0 / -0 / +10Score on mirror ) 2 children
It's a very complex scenario. On one hand, "Honor thy father and thy mother" is a commandment, and your mother has already apologized. On the other, the denominational differences and rapid changes in your views will almost inevitably spark conflict.

I'd reckon your best bet is to try and steer conversations away from religion and politics, or if it must come up, listen and keep rebuttals to yourself. An important thing to remember is that this wasn't your fault. What denomination of Christianity you follow, what you believe, and what you and your husband do are entirely your choices. Respect for your parents does not mean becoming them.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror ) 1 child
Very wise words. Thank you. Defending a political or tertiary religious view isn’t worth potentially severing family ties.
Kopkot on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
I think you're in a strange spot as a wife to argue for your husband against your parents. I'd advise to listen but stand firm in the truth. Always defer to the truth and seek truth. Even if you are wrong at first.

Keep pursuit of truth paramount, don't agitate them needlessly, but don't be anything but firm with them.
wankingisgay on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
10/10 reply
rentfREEEE_since2016 on scored.co
1 year ago 9 points (+0 / -0 / +9Score on mirror )
Literal conversation I had with my dad.

“Hey dad, I’ve been reading a lot about the late Roman Empire and the rise of Christianity. I think you’d like this book.”

One week later

“Dad did you have a chance to read that book I sent you about the origins of Christendom”

Dad: “no. I couldn’t really get into it. But I’ve been reading this great book called “THE HISTORY OF THE JEWISH PEOPLE” it talks about how the JEWS are responsible THE PROGRESS OF WESTERN CIVILIZATION. You should read it!And you know what? ITS ALL TRUE!”


Byzantine_Shill on scored.co
1 year ago 7 points (+0 / -0 / +7Score on mirror ) 3 children
Aside from the fact you’ll only find salvation in the true Church of St Peter, your shift to traditional values riles them because your behavior acts as a light on their soul. Because modern society is so degenerate, so heretical, and so far removed from the civilized world that the most basic manners of Christendom are seen as extreme acts today.

These “extreme acts” are often admired or mocked but can also frighten those who enjoy the lawlessness like a criminal sees the markings of a police car. Their fear comes from seeing the Law of God their knowledge of the sins they have, still are, and will commit therefore they will do what they must to get the law out of their sight. The eyes are the window to the soul. They’d rather pressure you to give up the natural and traditional laws, so they no longer witness what is good, than to give up their sins.

This is exactly what Henry VIII did and why he made the Anglican sect. But now even the Anglicans are too much for this wicked world to bear.

Its best not to interact with those that demand your return to degeneracy. I am the only Catholic in my family and the town but no one has done an “intervention” and demanded I cease Catholicism.

If that were to happen, I would not speak to them since, according to Luke 14, we are to renounce our father and mother and everyone else who does such things against the Lord.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 6 points (+0 / -0 / +6Score on mirror ) 2 children
The Anglican Church is far more ancient than Henry VIII and his break from Rome. I also don’t understand the gatekeeping of the Catholic Church when it comes to my salvation. We have apostolic succession, we have very similar views on a lot of primary and secondary issues. We believe in the Trinity and baptismal regeneration.

Anyway, before I get too into the weeds and start arguing with you, I appreciate your advice and respect your opinions. I love my Roman Catholic brothers, I’m just not totally convinced to cross the Tiber.
wankingisgay on scored.co
1 year ago 5 points (+0 / -0 / +5Score on mirror ) 1 child
Stop thinking in denominations. Each denomination is retarded in its own way, some more than the other.

Christianity does not need a denomination. Everything is already covered in the Gospels. And there is some context in the rest of the texts but Gospels is enough on its own
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
I’m aware that denominations are divisive, but it’s just the way things are right now. So many sects of Christianity are just so unbelievably cucked, gay, and/or demonic right now. Finding a solid church isn’t easy. We finally found one and now my parents are upset because they “tried to keep us safe from the dangers of ritualism” found in the Catholic Church
Byzantine_Shill on scored.co
1 year ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror )
It was said out of charity since many would prefer to keep the truth from others. But I wanted to explain the cause of the situation without endorsing the Anglicans.

If your family can have peace and drop the matter, so be it. But if they ask you to choose sin and slander your husband behind his back, it is best not to be with them until they change their behavior.
TakenusernameA on scored.co
1 year ago 5 points (+0 / -0 / +5Score on mirror )
>These “extreme acts” are often admired or mocked but can also frighten those who enjoy the lawlessness like a criminal sees the markings of a police car.

This is also why jews and commies hate Christianity so much, they know God is real, and they know what theyre doing is evil, but their pride is so great that if you actually point it out to them and recommend they repent, it causes them to go absolutely mad. We are sadly seeing this more and more in society as it becomes more judaized and communist.
MI7BZ3EW on scored.co
1 year ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror ) 1 child
> you’ll only find salvation in the true Church of St Peter

I'm pretty sure that is not what the Catholic Church teaches.
Byzantine_Shill on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror ) 2 children
Pope Pius XI, Mortalium Animos (#10), Jan. 6, 1928: “… the union of Christians can only be promoted by promoting the return to the one true Church of Christ of those who are separated from it…”

Pope Eugene IV, Council of Florence, Sess. 8, Nov. 22, 1439, ex cathedra: “Whoever wishes to be saved, needs above all to hold the Catholic faith; unless each one preserves this whole and inviolate, he will without a doubt perish in eternity… But it is necessary for eternal salvation that he faithfully believe also in the incarnation of our Lord Jesus Christ...the Son of God is God and man...– This is the Catholic faith; unless each one believes this faithfully and firmly, he cannot be saved.”
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror ) 1 child
This brings to mind the passage in I Corinthians where Paul is reprimanding the church for the divisiveness caused by claiming “I was Baptized by Paul” or “I was Baptized by Appollos”. Similar things going on here. Protestants, Catholics, and the East all have issues. I don’t think any one of them is the “one true Church” and to claim that you are is unnecessary. Instead of tearing each other down or declaring anathema upon one another, we need to focus on spreading the Gospel, edifying the Church, and continuing to grow in personal and corporate faith.
WeedleTLiar on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
The way I think of it, salvation comes directly from God and the various Churches, even religions, are attempts by us humans to help each other find our paths. Some people might need Catholicism, some people might need Protestantism. Some people might find God living alone in a desert.

There's no reason to bicker over trivialities because every Church is created and run by man, not God. They're intermediaries between us and what is truly important.
MI7BZ3EW on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 ) 1 child
OK, I am not a catholic by any stretch of the imagination, but I know enough of what catholics teach to destroy your argument.

You said in your previous comment that "you'll only find salvation in the true Church of St. Peter". Do you agree?


You were speaking to someone who believes in Orthodox Christianity. Agree?

Now, I am going to draw a conclusion based on these two facts that you meant that belonging to the Orthodox Church would deny her "salvation in the true Church of St. Peter". Agree?

Finally, I want you to carefully consider the word "church" in the context of your statements by Pope Pious XII or pretty much any other pope or priest or teacher or any other context within the Catholic Church. Answer this question: Are Orthodox believers members of that church or not?

Therefore, and this is my conclusion, you were misrepresenting what the Catholic Church teaches about salvation and "church".

In the future, do a better job of defending your own faith. Or stop pretending to be a catholic.
Byzantine_Shill on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 ) 1 child
The Catholic Church has always held that those outside the Church are not saved. This is a universal fact held since Christ. I have no idea where you got your info from but has nothing to do with Catholicism. Perhaps you’ve confused nondenominational Protestantism with Catholicism somehow but they are total opposites.

https://vaticancatholic.com/outside-the-church-there-is-no-salvation/

MI7BZ3EW on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
So, which statement do you disagree with? Which ones are right?

It sounds like you disagree with my interpretation of what the catholic church teaches is the "Church".

Or maybe you reject catholic doctrines altogether. I don't know.
derkevevin on scored.co
1 year ago 7 points (+0 / -0 / +7Score on mirror ) 1 child
\>they think I have “bitterness and hate” in my heart
\>they think my views on them are unfounded
\>they think I’m not educated about the situation

Peak irony.
These boomers will never understand how much the kikes hate us, *especially* Christians.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 5 points (+0 / -0 / +5Score on mirror ) 1 child
I even brought up how early church fathers that we revere and reformers we respect did not like the jews. They basically said “no creed by Christ”. I can’t argue with people like this. It’s exhausting.
BeefyBelisarius on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
>They basically said “no creed by Christ”

And never mind that Christ literally said that He was *the* way, truth, and light, not *a* way. Some people you just can't reach, all you can do is pray for them.
2016TrumpMAGA on scored.co
1 year ago 6 points (+0 / -0 / +6Score on mirror ) 1 child
> How do I not disappoint my own parents?

That is the wrong question.

> How do I not disappoint my husband, myself, and our children?

That is the right question.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror )
I still want to respect and honor my parents though. God and husband and kids always come first (in that order)
SpViv on scored.co
1 year ago 6 points (+0 / -0 / +6Score on mirror ) 2 children
My parents went down the pro qanon Trump rabbit hole in 2020, and decided to lecture me on the inner workings of the deep state without one sideways mention of jews. Fuckin seriously.
Kopkot on scored.co
1 year ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror ) 1 child
TDS goes both ways.
SpViv on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror )
Yea, basically they are the inverse of the more popular version of TDS.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror ) 1 child
My parents are similar. It’s frustrating.
SpViv on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror )
How did you deal with it? I just nodded and let them talk. It was off the wall crap like oh just wait two weeks, or there's gold buried under the Vatican lol
ChrisTheCuckSlayer on scored.co
1 year ago 6 points (+0 / -0 / +6Score on mirror ) 3 children
Don't be upset? Don't listen to boomers? They are literally the worst generation ever created. Jew loving, Mexican loving, Indian loving, Nigger loving, shipped all the manufacturing overseas, watered down everything that made the US great.

Why would you take anything they say to heart? I know they are your parents, but Gen X and boomers are fucking retards, and they will make sure you don't get anything when you die.

My dad used to joke that he was giving everything he had to the church when he died and he would make sure us "heathens" didn't get anything. Well, Jesus killed him with a nice painful horrific 5 year battle with brain cancer and he died penny-less with piles of bills for my mom. 0 life insurance, 0 stocks, 0 crypto, 0 bonds, house not paid off... Nothing. I was there in the house me, him and my brother built when he died. Looking like something out of a fucking horror movie. They deserve the worst of you, not the best of you. Edit: PS don't feel bad for them at all, you don't owe them anything, they thoughtfully and deliberately tried to divide you and your husband. Just remember that. It wont be the last time, this is typical boomer behavior.
BeefyBelisarius on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
Arguably, their "greatest" generation parents were worse than the boomers themselves. They're the ones who fought to establish the current kiked world order, wrecked our immigration system and started the flood of shitskins before boomers were old enough to vote, lowered the voting age so that gullible kids could be manipulated to vote against their own people, and utterly failed to dicipline their spoiled boomer kids.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror ) 2 children
This seems a bit harsh, but I can kind of get where you’re coming from. I know they care deeply about my siblings and I which is why they think they know what’s best for me. It’s a delicate balance of honoring my parents and holding fast to what I believe. I’m trying to do both and it seems impossible. I’ll be in prayer for myself and them and the whole situation. I’m thinking maybe I *should* be a bit slower to speaking because I tend to have no filter.
WeedleTLiar on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
>honoring my parents and holding fast to what I believe

"Honour" is not the same as "please".

You honour your parents by serving God, not their idea of God. We can't know His reasons, but it could well be that you are needed to help them realize that they're worshipping idols.

Stay polite but stay firm. There's no arguing matters of faith, they aren't rational. If you truly beleive, that Truth is more important even than family. Continue to be the dutiful daughter and don't move an inch just to appease them.

If they keep pushing you, shrug them off; "That's nice, I'm going to clear the table".

Kopkot on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
Sadly you'll be competing with the TV for influence and most people spend 4 hours a day in front of it watching their own programming.
Kopkot on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
Damn bro sorry. Many such cases.
Tourgen on scored.co
1 year ago 5 points (+0 / -0 / +5Score on mirror ) 1 child
easy to deal with but it might get emotional so be aware of that and keep your emotions under control. have your husband present and you should both support each other and not argue or dither in front of your parents.

tell them exactly where your boundary is and tell them the consequences for violating it. tell them very explicitly that you are a married grown adult, you and your family make their own decisions, and their attempt to take control of your decision making is not only unwanted it will not be tolerated. they will treat you respectfully and with proper manners as they would treat any other adult, respecting your privacy and autonomy. Otherwise your relationship with them will degrade and ultimately end.

this is part of life. putting your parents in their place. some never learn and they consequently have distant or no relationship with their children. some parents have never grown up and aren't actual adults. seems weird but it's not actually all that uncommon.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror ) 2 children
That’s the worst part. My husband wasn’t even there to defend himself. I, as the soft emotional woman, was reduced to tears and could barely defend myself. I think their reasoning for it is that they’re “concerned for my eternal soul” or something like that. As if they can read the original Greek manuscripts and exegete the Bible correctly or properly discuss Church history. My husband can do all three, and I think they don’t enjoy his “lectures” or discussions about these things (they seem to get the impression that he thinks he knows better than everyone else, which is definitely not true).

They think my husband gets too angry during these conversations, but honestly I just think he’s frustrated that they’re not listening at all, and I don’t blame him for getting a little annoyed whenever we discuss these things.

For the time being, I’ll step back and not discuss politics or religion for a bit. This shouldn’t be at the forefront of my mind. Plenty of other things to be concerned about in my life. This is just an extra annoyance.
mommamany on scored.co
1 year ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror )
Oh no. This is something that does need a firm reprimand. I have had to address this with my own parents and here's how the conversation went: "Mom, as a wife what would you do if someone talked about your husband like that? Even with good intentions, you wouldn't allow someone to disrespect your husband to your face. Dad, as a head of your home you understand my husband is the head of mine. I understand you are concerned, but I can't allow you yo undermine my husband's God given authority because then *you* are disobeying God. If you have a concern regarding my husband, do not gossip to me and to go to him directly as Jesus outlines in Matthew."
Kopkot on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
This is happening in my family right now. My in laws get worried and upset because I'm more principled about things then they are and it scares them that I'm with their daughter. They much prefer someone who goes along to get along.

I'll give my father in law credit though, when I challenge him on some TV opinion he usually gives it up quickly because he realizes he doesn't have anything backing it up but the TV told him so.
covok48 on scored.co
1 year ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror )
I would make it clear you will not be treated like that again. You don’t have to cut them off, but do follow through with leaving / no contact if they think your red lines are just suggestions.
TakenusernameA on scored.co
1 year ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror ) 1 child
Have you gotten a bible and *showed* them where it shows that the jews are rejected by Christ, called a synagogue of Satan, and that Christians are grafted on in their place? Or are they the types who think St. Paul was somehow a subversive who created his own brand of Christianity, because at that point they arent even worth arguing with, theyre too far gone. Either way, politely accept their apology, but if theyve shown no intention of actually seeking the truth, dont bring it up again unless they ask and show signs of being truly interested to hear you out. You are obligated to correct those in error, but only so long as they are willing to accept correction (and obviously within your station, I cant go up and beat the Pope because he says something I think is heretical, which occurs quite frequently, but I can politely point it out as I would my own father, who, coincidentally, is an unrepentant heretic.)
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 5 points (+0 / -0 / +5Score on mirror ) 3 children
I try, but they always shut it down. They think it’s “mean” and “hateful”. I definitely will be more careful with my words and speak out only when necessary. I didn’t think they disapproved so much.
BeefyBelisarius on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
I suppose they also think the parable of Lazarus and the rich man is mean and hateful, along with all the Old Testament examples of Israelites being punished for turning away from the law and raising altars to foreign gods.
WeedleTLiar on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
Hating evil is appropriate. Hatred is not the greatest sin.
TakenusernameA on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
Just show them the passages, dont even say anything. If they still claim what theyre reading is hateful, ask them to take it up with God.
BlippiIsAPedo on scored.co
1 year ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror ) 2 children
Do what you need to do to get the inheritance
oyest_of_veys on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
if there is one. with boomers, i’m not betting on it.
WeedleTLiar on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
If there's no culture to inherit, I'm not interested in money.
PurestEvil on scored.co
1 year ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror ) 2 children
> How do I not disappoint my own parents?

Don't bother with that at all. If they are hellbent on going crazy, you cannot stop them.

> How in the world do I handle this?

Well, depends on how confrontational you want to be. Do you want to keep a superficial connection with them where you are trapped in perpetual small talk? I say it disparagingly, but that's an actual option. It keeps some degree of peace.

If you want to assert yourself, tell them that their views are ignorant, and if anyone has to lecture the other, it's you. Or tell them it's none of their business how you live, and especially given their liberal views, they should respect that.

If you want a moderate stance, ignore what they did and tell them about yourself and your family as you want. If they want to talk about jews, bring up facts casually "did you know 6 jewish companies own 96% of US media? Shouldn't that raise a question or two?" or "did you know that according to jews, Jesus is rotting in hell in excrements? Do you agree with them?" This is a more provocative stance, but it can cause change (for better or worse).

> They think my husband is a “tyrant” (he leads and I follow, the way it should be)

Ask them why they think that. If you follow him willingly, he is not a tyrant, but a leader.

Just be sure to trust his judgement and be smart about it, and do not follow him blindly out of principle. My parents had this problem, and it caused quite some problems due to my father.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror ) 1 child
This is very helpful. I’ll be silent for now. They seem uninterested in changing their minds.
Kopkot on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
People are very proud now. Don't sweat it too much. Your mom apologized so it shows she is willing to respect your feelings. My parents irritate the shit out of me with similar discussions but they are trying. Its hard for them to come to terms with reality and most old people retreat into TV world hard in order to cope with the cognitive dissonance they find in reality.
WeedleTLiar on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
>How do I not disappoint my own parents?

It's important to distinguish "disappointing" from "dishonouring".

You honour your parents by being a person who validates their sacrifice. Not validate in their eyes but in God's eyes.

Imagine being one of Jesus' early followers and your parents are telling you that he's a heretic, a blasphemer, and the Church has condemned him. What did he say about that? Sometimes you need to leave you family in order to serve God.

They're more than welcome to join you, and there's no animosity, but your first loyalty should be to God, through which all things are possible.
Vlad_The_Impaler on scored.co
1 year ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror )
Turn the tables. Tell them how disappointed you are in them, why they are so loyal and dovoted to racist Christ haters, how limited they are in where they get information from, why they abandon tradition and believe that intelligent incredible White people must be ruled by inferior jews who lack faith in Jesus Christ, ask them who they actually thinks rules the world, the banks, the media, the printing press, the broadcast airwaves if not jews. Tell them every war in the last 50 years has been in defense of anti-Christ jews in Israel and it's fucking obvious to everyone who isn't brainwashed like they are.

Show them the condemnation. Wag your finger at them. Make them feel shame and apologize. Corner them. Treat them how they treated you, but have the Holy Spirit inside you when you do it.

Tell your father you are embarrassed how he allows his wife to drag him around the balls, and let his wife dictate what kind of a man he is. His generation letting women take charge is much to blame for why society is so fucked now.

Christianity has been at war with anti-Christ jews for most of the last 2,000 years. They are foolish enough to let zionism, which is only about 150 years old, to takeover their entire religion to the point they send thousands of young White Christian men to the other side of the planet to die for Christ-Hating cursed jews who are going to hell in the middle of a desert and it's obvious to everyone who isn't a brainwashed spielberg zombie who consumes jewish propaganda all day.

Any real Christian would not turn on his or her own Christian daughter in defense of jews who do not even believe in Jesus Christ. They are traitors. They dance on the graves of murdered women and children because they believe everything a lying anti-Christ jew such as Netanyahu tells them. They are brainwashed dolts who allowed their mainstream normie midwit generic mush minded granola processed bagged frito-lay chip brand reality tv kabuki theater corn syrup politics destroy their minds, their faith, their humanity, their relationships, and their lives.

Tell your mother that you learned to be loyal to your husband from years of experience of watching her disrespect and defy your own father. SHE taught you, by being a bad example, why YOU should be a better wife.

Tell your father that you sought out in a husband a man more stoic who would not be such a pathetic rollover to a woman, like he was.

At one point Rothstein owned CBS, Bog Iger owned ABC, Brian Roberts was owners of NBC, David Levy was president of CNN, Sulzbergers were owners of NYT, Eugene Meyer owned the washington post, ken lerer owned huffington post, anthony salz owned the Guardian, Rothschilds owned The Economist, Marcus Agius owned the BBC, Ezra Klein owned Vox, Jonah Peretti was CEO at Buzzfeed, etc. Their entire brainwashed geo-political world view is through the lens of lying jews who hate Jesus Christ.

Open the Bible to Revelation 2:9. They who call themselves jews but are not, but are the synagogue of satan. And be prepared for their "those who bless israel will be blessed" nonsense because they probably never read past Genesis in their Bibles before turning on their idiot box, NPR radio or a football game.

They should apologize for being silent for decades while so many White children were brainwashed into supporting zionism and brainwashed to believe jews are the world's most hurt victims when the opposite is true. The same White children who they think it is a sin to have racial consciousness or white pride. FUCK THEM!

A modern political debate is just Nikki Haley, Ron DeSantis and Donald Trump all yelling over each other who serves lying jews in Israel more. It's so fucking obvious who the evil people are who rule over us but they are too selfishly righteously indignant to see the errors of the nonsense they believe and the errors of their own ways that they lack an open mind to even learn the truth or desire it because they can't let go of the lies that have consumed their entire lives to the point they are about to alienate their own daughter.
LoveYourFolk on scored.co
1 year ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror )
Stick with your husband and follow his lead entirely
Vulkanian on scored.co
1 year ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror ) 1 child
Had the exact same conversation with my parents two weeks ago, even made a post about it.

There's basically nothing you can do, the older generations are beyond saving. It doesn't matter how much proof or evidence you show them, their programming won't break, partly because they're egotistical and can't admit they've been easily fooled and wrong their entire lives. The only thing you can do is avoid talking about politics with them.
WeedleTLiar on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror )
Lead poisoned...
mommamany on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror ) 1 child
I'm sorry for the heartache you're experiencing. I think you're being a good wife *and* daughter, by respecting your family unit (you and hubby) while still desiring to honor your family. A lot of people just simply "cut them off" and I think that's a tactic of the Enemy to weaken us.


I was raised traditionally but with zionist, dispensationalist relatives. I can understand, it's difficult. I've learned in order to honor my parents I can't engage in certain discussions with them. For the health of our relationship, and to avoid devolving into harmful things we can't take back, I simply can't take on the burden of trying to change their mind. I can still speak the truth (respectfully, like you do, not "in their face") and they can still find it unpleasant, that's their right. But navigating conversations so they can remain fruitful and respectful is important if you want to continue to have a healthy relationship. You obviously love them and are hurt to be blindsided by them, and the fact your mom apologized bodes well.


Once upon a time my parents did something similar over another topic. If this happened again, I would meet them both for breakfast and give them a hug and say something like, "hey mom and dad, I know you are coming from a place of love and concern. Just because we have different beliefs doesn't mean we need to try to convince one another or insult one another. I'd like to have a respectful relationship between us all, so please know that I've heard your concerns but I am not going to be discussing them anymore. You can have trust that Husband and I are ok and feel convicted the Lord is leading us well. Now, what's new in your guys life? What looks good for breakfast?"


I know it's awkward and painful to navigate this now, but it truly is a blessing to be able to do this before children come. Once babies are in the mix, boundaries can become blurry and childhood issues can make emotions run high. You're setting the stage now, which will only help you later. Hang in there sister.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror )
We’re definitely not the kind of family to hold grudges or remain bitter about things. They love me and think they know what’s best for me. I think that, after all these years of basically agreeing with my parents on everything, the fact that I’m now having original thoughts that they vehemently disagree with is *really* giving them whiplash.

Regardless, I’ll keep my mouth shut for now and just enjoy time with family. This isn’t worth holding over anyone’s head.
IGOexiled on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror ) 1 child
> (he leads and I follow, the way it should be)

In order to follow something it needs to be moving. If you follow a tree you end up in the same place forever.

Just be careful who you "follow", make sure they have a trajectory and speed, and that it is positive.

Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror ) 1 child
We’re definitely moving in a direction, that’s for sure. He’s in seminary at the moment and we’ll see where that leads.
IGOexiled on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
Well then my next advice is this: there was a time, about 3 years, that I didn't speak to my mom. Probably justifiably.

I very rarely regret those missing years, but on the rare occasions where I do, the regret is ***immense***.
ChristIsLord on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror ) 1 child
My rule of thumb on the JQ and race anymore is only bring it up when someone else does. I shared the Stone Choir podcast with a family member and instead of listening to any of it they claim it's a gnostic cult because of what retards say about it. No substantial evidence provided, besides "muh hate" arguments I'm certain you've been given. Cognitive dissonance is very uncomfortable and in most cases for me it just causes people to shut down. And if it causes you to get emotional and worked up enough that you storm out, end the conversation before it gets that far. "I love you mom/dad but I'm getting a little frustrated right now, can we talk about this another time?" No need to destroy your relationship with your family. Let them do that but not you.

Another thing, I saw that your husband is in Seminary. I hope you both are prepared for him never finding a church to pastor and/or his eventual dox. If you both have been open to others on the JQ and race, someone will be waiting to tear him down. Could even be your parents. Look at SuperLutheran from the GodCast. You can find his dox if you're so inclined. Or even that mixed race Anglican guy who got in big trouble recently. I'm not trying to desuade him from ministry but the majority of the "church" is hostile to the truth. I was in Seminary but I couldn't even convince people not to mutilate their sons with the Bible and other evidence. I'd start my own church but I'm not sure how that'd go in the rural NE, that may be the route your husband has to go but I'm not certain Anglicanism is friendly towards that.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 ) 1 child
Surprisingly, the denomination we’re in right now is full of our guys. They’re stealth, but at least they exist. We have our own little group where we discuss the things we aren’t usually allowed to. We usually keep everything on the dl because there’s so many boomers in our church. But honestly, the next generation is certainly more traditional and open to these views (I know of at least 3 people in our church who agree with us)

Fr. Calvin Robinson was apparently defrocked by the bishop without any sort of conversation with him. I believe he’s still helping out at the church though. We’ll see what happens with him.

Overall, we know we need to keep quiet about *a lot* of things because of this pursuit of Holy Orders. But I’ll keep in mind that everyone is listening and you never know what they’ll do with what they hear, no matter how innocuous you think it is.
ChristIsLord on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror )
That's his name! I couldn't for the life of me remember.

Hold on to that group, I'd give anything to have that in my life right now. There are days I consider doxing myself just to have the hope I can find some brothers and sisters who have two brain cells to rub together.
Can-Maga on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 ) 1 child
Dual-Seedline Christian Identity is the next step https://christogenea.org/
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 ) 1 child
Sorry but this is just a bit too schizo for me. Christian identity doesn’t make any sense.
Can-Maga on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
You might like it if you give it a chance, a lot of "common knowledge" we accept from this jew-rotted society gets reversed once you understand CI.

I'd recommend these:

https://christogenea.org/podcasts/community/christian-outreach/william-finck-jerm-warfare-what-if-christianity-not-meant-whole-world

https://christogenea.org/podcasts/community/christian-outreach/william-finck-jerm-warfare-importance-genesis

I've been listening for 3 years and it's absolutely not schizo
justaddwater on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 ) 2 children
Never show your power level. You fucked up and now have to make amends by virtue signaling your love of filthy jew nigger faggots.

 Enjoy the jewpology tour, dumbass.
Fudgiethewhale on scored.co
1 year ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror )
Things slip out and then you double down idek :(
WeedleTLiar on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
Never apologise for telling the Truth.
Vlad_The_Impaler on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
1. The most intelligent man in the world Christopher Langan is anti-Semitic. LOL

2. The most advanced Artificial Intelligence, Grok, is anti-Semitic. LOL

3. Then there's your midwit parents who get their information from TV and jew owned media
Knight_Of_Saint_John on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
There is a very simple solution

Show them how Christians are treated in israel, force them to watch it if you must

I guarantee you they are going to change their mind once the programming is shattered
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