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I empathize with you. I got cheated on when I was 23

Your greatest strides as a man are about to happen

Be ready

See it positively. She showed you her true face. Sooner or later you would have seen it anyway, be lucky that it was so early on. She sounds like a real menace.

This disgust you find with your tears is a built-in natural instinct. It will make you stronger.

I'm sorry to hear man, it's tough and brutally painful, just know you'll get through it. And remember, you gotta love yourself more than you loved her. Remember, you had a life before her, and you have a life now.

shows you how much you mattered to her then

That's the sad reality of (((dating apps))), they swipe and they find someone better looking among a directory of thousands.

Thanks for the advice degenerate nigger


If I have ever have the question “What would a nigger do?” I’ll look you up

☝🏼 Puritans gonna disagree, but doubt they are speaking from experience.

Good man.


Now you have a better appreciation of why Eve was the one who tempted Adam to fall in with her: and not the other way around

Yeah they feed off simps. Don't be a simp.

Lmao. I remember those days, utterly destroyed because of various women I hardly knew.

You'll emerge from the other side harder and more dead inside. You'll be taking hits like this for the rest of your life. Every passing one hardens you against the next. Just realize it doesn't matter. The longer you focus on this whore, the more of your life she'll steal away from you. I was fucked up off one who friend zoned me for the early part of my 20s. That's time I'll never get back and I cringe to think about it.

Then one day you wake up 30 fucking years old. 30 FUCKING YEARS!!!

Now you look here you youngster, get your shit together. You're in the best part of your life. Hit the gym and eat right. The world belongs to you as long as you play your cards right.

It's real... but it's temporary.

Any time bro. One thing that helped me through the woman troubles of my youth was thinking about my ancestors laughing in Heaven at me crying my eyes out over some other ditzy broad. It's a silly thing.

No, avoid MGTOW. Anyway, it's mostly bitter nonwhites. What you need to do:
1) NEVER sleep with a woman you aren't married to. This will make it more difficult to pair-bond when you do find a wife. If you aren't a virgin when you marry, can you expect your wife to be?
2) NEVER cry in front of a woman. They are repulsed by this. Your attitude needs to be like this when a female dumps you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xLnTWxpTQt4
3) Realize that there are tons of women out there. If this one doesn't work, YOU WILL FIND ANOTHER. You need to stay away from the MGTOW nonsense! As a man, your fertility lasts at least 3 times as long as a woman's. This lady made a poor choice... maybe you are the one who dodged a bullet, and she should have been crying! No one will cry over her when she's 40.
4) Move on!

If you're curious about MGTOW, their good ideas, stats, and redpills on women, I recommend the earlier videos by Karen Straughan (10-12 years ago, her highest viewed videos) and Better Bachelor. They're both on (((Youtube))).


Better Bachelor is probably the most level headed MGTOW guy you'll find, even if he doesn't go full 1488 like ConPro. He still has really good videos on the bad behaviors of modern women. However, ignore him when he advocates for sleeping around and incel behavior. Just listen when he brings up the facts about marriage, sex count stats related to marriage success rates, divorce courts, and modern women's general behavior (if you dig through his video library, they're generally well labelled).


I used to be one of those children raised by boomers, and was told to always respect women and hold the door (completely ignorant to how malicious women could be), and MGTOW stuff was one of my first red pills, and it blew my mind how off the world was compared to how I was raised. I still try to be a traditional male, but reserve it for the deserving. Every White man needs to protect himself, and learn to spot the warning signs. This goes far beyond just the behaviors of women.


As u/Erase99 said (or moreso what I'd add), be extremely careful with MGTOW. It used to be a genuine movement in the 00s and early 2010s, but somewhere after that they got captured and corrupted, convincing men to no longer pursue women for marriage and having children. Like I said, their stats on women's behavior is solid, but their solutions (now) are all wrong.


If you're curious on the warnings signs of women, just ask around. You'll probably gain more traction creating a new thread. I'm sure you'd get lots of feedback on ConPro, from men and and few good women here. I'd give you some now, but I have some stuff to do. Maybe later. In any case, this is stuff you'll learn from MGTOW, and from general experience in the world (the good and the bad). To avoid the bad, just listen to what other men have gone through (which is what Karen Straughan and Better Bachelor are good at conveying).



In general, though, here's a decent list of warning signs from women, and how to act around them, and in general:


1) As a general rule, don't cry in front of women. Try to reserve that for your male friends, who will be much more understanding. Try to pursue and embody an attitude of stoicism. That doesn't mean you shouldn't feel, just that you shouldn't betray your weakness/feelings when it will be used against you. Women (rightfully) abhor weak men, and crying is a sign of weakness, even though we all know there are good reasons for men to cry.


2) Be upfront, steadfast, logical, and level headed. This goes for men and women. Women will flock to strong men. They usually display this by gravitating toward men that are physically strong, tall, and have a lot of money, but women can subconsciously tell when you're mentally strong, and this will in turn make women (and men) respect you more, and be more likely to attract a mate.


3) Work out, eat right, stay curious, ask questions, learn, and stay healthy (in every regard). The inner mind should reflect the outer body, and vice versa. Your first impression will always be your physical presentation, so make sure it's a good one. Be healthy and decently dressed. Even men with bad genetics can overcome a lot of it by being fit and well dressed. Don't try to become someone else, try to be the best version of yourself that you can. Thus, always strive to improve, not just for women, but for your brothers. We men need each other to be strong for when shit hits the fan.


4) Facilitate strong male bonds. A lot of society revolves around "the game", pursuing meaningless relationships with the opposite sex, but with the massive attack against men, especially traditional men, you need to engender and work on strong male relationships. In your job, in hobbies, friends, and family, all of it. Find a group of like minded men that you can talk with openly, the kind of men that you can tell them anything, that kind of men that will help you, both when you need help, and when you screw up. The stronger the need, the stronger the bond, which is why you'll always find stories in wartime of men who become brothers very quickly. That's the kind of thing you should be looking for.



5) The traditional role of men is to be the protector and provider, doing the more laborious and dangerous tasks far from home and tribe. The traditional role of women is to be the mother and homemaker, doing the easier and safer tasks close to home and tribe. Anyone who says otherwise is either a fool or liar. All of civilization, even the human species itself, is built on this foundation. We're a sexually dimorphic species, meaning each sex fulfills a different role, to increase species efficiency. The sexes are meant to be complimentary, not competitive. This is the central premise of marriage itself. One man and one woman come together to form a complete human, and only then can they procreate the species (have kids). Anything else is an abomination. Thus, your job as a man, to your spouse, for your children, for your community, and for your people, is to provide protection and provision. Men are literally the builders of civilization. Women enable civilization to continue, filling the one role men can't do on our own. Connected to this, the philosophical pursuits of men and women are different. Men prioritize truth/logic first, and we must, to fulfill our role efficiently, to enable ourselves, our wife, and our children to survive. Women prioritize life first, and they must, to fulfill their role efficiently as mothers, enabling their children to survive. However, truth must be prioritized above life, which is why all stable successful groups (regardless of size or pursuit) are naturally patriarchal. This is also why men are more logical and women are more emotional/empathetic. You don't just prioritize (learn) truth/logic, you have to embody it, in every way. This, in turn, supports everything else I've explained and listed throughout this comment (and more).


6) Don't sleep with a woman you don't intend to marry and have kids with. You're young, so resist your own impulses, and those of any woman you meet who will try to tempt you. Once you learn to spot the signs, you'll know pretty fast if a woman is worthy of pursuit (usually within the first few minutes, or the first date). Biblically, marriage is actually when you have sex with a woman. View it that way. Don't commit yourself to a woman you don't want to spend the rest of your life with, that you don't want raising your kids.


7) Women will generally "cleave to you", meaning they'll bend to your will. This will only happen if you're strong (in every way). So, be strong, and do the things you need to do to be strong. You're the leader of the family, so be a worthy leader. Lead the woman, and she is generally tasked with leading and teaching the children. There are exceptions, of course, but you'll learn about that later. Every MGTOW metric supports this, too, that women's mindset will change to fit the closest strong male role model, whether be their father, their husband, or the government. This is also why a lot of modern women are so warped. Globohomo government, media, and corporatism have replaced the role of men as protector and provider, so women espouse the globohomo propaganda, not knowing it adversely affects themselves. You could, conceivably, mold a brainwashed woman to your will, but be very, very careful about doing so. You'll probably get burned. Just remember that modern women are molded and influenced by the propaganda a lot more than men, since they're less logical and more emotional/empathetic than men. This is why it's usually a good indicator if a woman has/had a strong father in her life for wife material. Also, since women are physically weaker than men, they're more likely to be subversive and conniving to get their way. Good women will still do this (to a lesser degree), but learn to spot the signs. If you're in the right (be sure you are), do no budge to a woman's manipulations, no matter what anyone says. Put your foot down and don't move. The worse a woman is, the more "shit tests" she'll give you (testing if you're actually a strong man, and won't put up with her bullshit). Good women will give you very few, if any, shit tests.


8) The current economy is atrocious for the traditional family unit. This is why the wife usually has to work to supplement the income of the man. If possible, try to keep this to a minimum, which will in turn require you to push yourself harder to pursue a career that can support the wife and children on your own. If the wife has to work, try to keep it to sectors which better suite a woman's natural inclinations (empathy), like nursing, veterinary, house keeping, schooling young kids, etc. Corporate (largely) life ruins women. Also, don't let your wife "pursue a career". Even the "strong" and "empowered" women, replete with all the globohomo brainwashing, once they have their first kid, will want to settle down, take care of the kids, and be a homemaker.


9) Make sure the woman is good around kids. You can verify this on dates by introducing them to family with young kids and babies. Good women will get the "tingles" by just being around babies, and will want to coddle them. Even women that have expressed that they don't want kids, will be abuzz with starting a family after being around babies. This behavior is also brought out, and easily observed by bringing them around pets, especially young ones. Have a date where they're introduced to family that have a newborn baby, or bring them to a petshop with puppies and kittens. You'll be able to see right away if they have motherly instincts and inclinations.


10) Don't forget about your own worth. Too many times men forget themselves in the equation. We're hardwired to naturally sacrifice ourselves for others, but don't forget yourself, especially in the beginning stages of a relationship where you're determining if it'll even work or not. Make sure you determine the worth of the woman. What does she bring to the table. If she's just a sex object, with no other value, you should find someone else. We've fallen a great deal over the last 100 years, but this should still be considered. Can she sew, knit, garden, homeschool, cook, homemake, can and preserve? Given the movement of society away from these things, see if she's willing to pursue and learn these things. Most traditionally feminine women will, if you lead them, and actively espouse the importance of such things. In that regard, it's much easier to find women who are knowledgeable about these things in rural settings, especially in Mennonite and "liberal" Amish communities (which accept certain levels of tech), just be damned sure you're worthy of such a woman, and that lifestyle.


That's all I can think of off the top of my head. This is a huge subject spanning numerous topics, so don't get overwhelmed. Take a bite out of it one small section at a time. You'll learn as you go, and you'll make mistakes. But, if you prioritize truth and logic above all else, you'll find the correct path.

He will fren, but just remember that when you commit fornication, you sin against not just Him, but yourself as well. Self-respect is one of the most important thing a man can have.

I don't mean to literally go and thank her, but you can. But I mean, deep down, because if you are holding any form of animosity, or hate, anger, sorrow, then you are still in fact, holding on in some shape or form. Giving gratitude to the experiences mean you are thankful and are moving on.