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Me and my ex are both 19, we met online and then real life, where most of the feelings developed, shortly after that, we took each other's virginity. After about ~4 months of daily texting, meeting with each other, (I go to a university, she works as a hair stylist) she simply told me, that she doesn't love me anymore. I was devastated, went and cried to her, without an ounce of reaction on her face. It's been a week now, I've tried talking to her 3 different times now with no good results. I gave up on finding anything salvageable, but I'd be glad to read some advice on here.
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GoldenInnosStatue on scored.co
1 year ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror )
> we met online and then real life, where most of the feelings developed, shortly after that, we took each other's virginity

Bruder, this is why the relationship died so fast, you went from strangers to lovers without cultivating the relationship proper

>After about ~4 months of daily texting

not real romantic interaction

>She simply told me, that she doesn't love me anymore

love is fleeting, its an emotion, a chemical, it doesn't stay with you unless the pairbonding chemicals are constantly exposed

>I was devastated, went and cried to her, without an ounce of reaction on her face

worst fuck up you can possibly do, but i feel you

men aren't emotionless automatons, and pretending we can just *de-activate* our emotions is pure poppycock

>I gave up on finding anything salvageable

i wouldn't give up my passing my genes, yeah the "love" market is pretty stagnated and the women are pretty much all NPC-tier but honestly **i want children and i want to be a father**

so you either deal with your depression the *right* way (extreme exercise until your body aches and viberates from the pain) or just cry your guts out until you can feel nothing but the inner monologue that echos through your mind



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