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Me and my ex are both 19, we met online and then real life, where most of the feelings developed, shortly after that, we took each other's virginity. After about ~4 months of daily texting, meeting with each other, (I go to a university, she works as a hair stylist) she simply told me, that she doesn't love me anymore. I was devastated, went and cried to her, without an ounce of reaction on her face. It's been a week now, I've tried talking to her 3 different times now with no good results. I gave up on finding anything salvageable, but I'd be glad to read some advice on here.
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HerrBBQ on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 ) 1 child
Take some time to reflect on what you can learn from this. If you can identify a problem with your behavior that may have led to this, great, because that's something you can work on. If you can identify aspects of her personality that you disliked or that made the relationship unstable, great, because you can try to avoid women like her in the future. Try to reflect on these things objectively and without emotional distortion.

Life is a long series of decisions, chance encounters, and lifelong connections, and the magical thing about each step you take, including the steps where you stumble, is that you can learn from them, and apply your knowledge to all the steps you haven't taken yet.
Corvor3 on scored.co
1 year ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
Thank you, the whole journey was a long lesson, I know who to avoid and what to do when shit hits the fan now. No more crying in front of someone, no more letting another woman take lead of me, I was too generous and trusting of her, I paid the price of having her control me.
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