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Married over 15 years. Be open. If she wants to be with you, her political views will follow.

/once you understand that a woman is simply a child in a developed body, things start making sense.

We've been together for a long time, I think it's important to note two things.
1. You're better off with foot in the door vs. door in the face if you have uncommon/unpopular political or social opinions.
2. Women are more socially motivated than men; throught processes more in the line of; "How will my actions and views be seen by those around me?" vs. "Is this objectively true?"

Once you become a social focus in the relationship, bringing up things/noticing becomes easier to have conversations about. Consider not making everything you notice about society / community negative.

As an example, "As much as I admire the bravery of early feminists, I think they really did the average woman a lot of harm by pushing them into the workforce and education. One, doubling the workforce seems to have devalued labor. So, in a way it's robbed us of the ability to have a single person working to support the family. It also framed marriage as an abusive slave like relationship, while considering the workplace objectively a good move. It baffles me a little bit that working with your family is slavery but working for a faceless corporation is freedom."

Been married 13 years. Was always slightly racist, Conpro and other outlets got me maxed. By the time I shifted hard years ago we were at the point where she fully trusted in me to make all the decisions for us and our family regarding just about everything. She knows I'm more intelligent than her and we have our respective roles. If something were to happen and I was back out there single it would probably be the first thing I bring up. Although that is a bad strategy as there is already a very small pool of eligible young women who aren't whores without eliminating all those that are at least conpro lite right away. Better to gain trust and respect then ease into it imo.

1) After talking for a little while I just asked her political beliefs, like most women it was pretty milquetoast. Then told her mine, but very gently and not all at once. They’re emotional so you have to appeal to emotion, not logic.

> My ideology isn’t based on hate, it’s based on love. A love of my people, and my race. I see people of my race as a greater extension of my family. If you have children you love them more than anyone else’s children, but that doesn’t imply you hate all children who aren’t yours.

Things like that. Most things in life require finesse, you can’t just sperg out on how much you hate jews and niggers without making them shut off completely. You need to ease them into it, present your beliefs in a calm and factual matter but also in a way that gets them in their emotions, little bits at a time. You don’t get in shape by going from never lifting to deadlifting 500 pounds all at once because you’re going to do more harm than good.


2) She reacted with a curious interest because I could present my beliefs in a rational way and little bits at a time as to make her curious, not overwhelm her. Best advice is to practice presenting your beliefs when you’re alone so you can deliver them confidently. Nothing worse than stuttering, pausing, going “umm” “ahhh” or losing your train of thought and jumping all over the place. Practice presenting your beliefs confidently and clearly.


3) The theme of today is ease her into it. Not just women but any NPC. You’re completely countering and contradicting a belief system they’ve been taught their entire life. With most things in life you need to build it up over time. This is also important because it gives her time to get to know other parts of you besides your belief system that will make her more accepting of it. So she knows you’re a bit of a White nationalist, but then she sees you’re more honest than anyone she knows, you’re handy and a hard worker, you’re more of a gentleman than all her girlfriends men. You’re kind and compassionate with animals, you have a strong moral compass and don’t watch porn, or lust after other women and only give her attention. All her life she’s been taught White nationalists are angry dumb mean idiots who dress sloppy and are mouth breathing retards but then she meets one and he’s one of the best men she’s ever dated? As she falls in love with you she will be more open to further redpills. However if on your first date you yelled about niggers and sperged out on jewish blood ritual you would never have the chance to show her all the other sides of you. Finesse is best. Hope this helps

Winter of love for conpro lol

Been married over 35 years. We were both pretty liberal back in the day, but I went full tilt right wing over the last 10 years. We just avoid politics and political topics. I try to avoid saying "nigger" and "kike" around her.

They often want to talk about a news headline or some water cooler conversation they had where so and so had a retarded take. I just turned those situations into red pills and elaborate.

We both eased into it at the same time because we were both normies when we started dating. She kinda still is a normie, just a secretly racist one. I agree with what others said: If she wants to be with you, her political views will take after yours. If she's totally opposed to your political views, then she probably doesn't actually like you that much.

Married almost 30 years now.

I belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Things were a little different back in the 90s, but the fundamentals are not too different.

> politics

We are both adults and understand that politics is stupid. We both want is best for our kids, our church, and our friends and family, and that's all that really matters. Who we vote for isn't important. For the most part, she just votes however I vote, since I do all the research.

> react

To what?

> ease or be brutally honest about your views

What is most important to you is going to have to be important to her, and vice-versa, or you shouldn't get married. If you're not ready to sacrifice yourself on the altar to become one with your wife, and she's not ready to do the same, then you're not ready to be married.

> general advice on beginning stages of a relationship

I don't even know what this means.

This is how it works:

* Complete Strangers
* Acquaintances -- you meet her randomly or someone introduces you
* Friends -- you spend time together in neutral settings and get to know each other and rely on each other as friends.
* Dating / Courting -- the man makes his intentions clear and asks her out on social activities with the understanding that he is looking for a wife. She accepts with the understanding that she is looking for a husband. They feel each other out to see if they'd be a good fit and share similar goals.
* Engaged -- The man asks her to marry him. They announce to the world that they are going to get married soon, so that they are both off the courtship market. They spend a lot of time getting to know each other and their families and begin the transition to married life. In my church, engagements should last 1-3 months, tops. There's no reason to stretch it out.
* Married -- You finally move in together and start making babies full time.

I don't know what's confusing about that for this generation. I like to use the word "court" because what you young people call "dating" is something more akin to "whoring" when I was a kid. "Hook-ups" are ridiculously degenerate. They were back then, they are still today.

Regarding my top advice: You need to figure out what your top priorities are, and then put your best work into obtaining those things. Stop messing around with lesser goals.

Regarding how you get married: You become someone who the kind of girl you would want to marry would want to marry.

More serious advice:

* Get a job and save your money
* Learn how to properly groom yourself.
* Learn how to dress properly.
* Learn how to act properly.
* Learn how to speak properly.
* Make yourself right with God in every way possible.
* Don't waste your time with women who do not meet your standards as marriageable. They aren't worth your thoughts or attention. They probably shouldn't even be in your circle of friends.

Not sure what the correct answer is, but I did it slowly. Would corner her views with innocent questions that then made her question her opinion. Then she started asking mine and why I thought that way. After many years I think she’s starting to surpass me lol.

As I have moved from the conservative right to the Natsoc right, my wife has moved from the center left to the conservative right and then she moved on her own without my influence to the Natsoc right.

In the beginning our political conversations usually focused on war, economics, and whatever I listened to that day on political talk radio. I used to be a Glenn Beck fan so most of our political discussions involved whatever we was talking about that night when he had a TV show.

I moved her to the right on many things by making or repeating salient points raised by Glenn or thoughts I arrived at.

Over the two decades of marriage I've only grown more right wing and she has followed suit.

How she made the leap to Natsoc is a mystery to me. I kept my racial and natsoc opinions a secret. Somehow she got there on her own and admittedly I'm impressed.

I'm of the opinion that women will follow their men to whatever end. Women should follow their husband's lead in all things.