Been married 13 years. Was always slightly racist, Conpro and other outlets got me maxed. By the time I shifted hard years ago we were at the point where she fully trusted in me to make all the decisions for us and our family regarding just about everything. She knows I'm more intelligent than her and we have our respective roles. If something were to happen and I was back out there single it would probably be the first thing I bring up. Although that is a bad strategy as there is already a very small pool of eligible young women who aren't whores without eliminating all those that are at least conpro lite right away. Better to gain trust and respect then ease into it imo.