Just fell out of a relationship with the woman I thought I was going to marry. It took so much time and energy and luck to even get in the situation I was in. I'm only 25 but that feeling of lost progress and momentum is really hurting.
How do you stop yourself from being demoralised and black pilled and keep at it?
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I always found online dating and the like demoralizing. At one point though I worked at a company with a lot of young people and I formed a large friend group that was like 50/50 men and women. Now, that was great. We'd have parties, play drinking games, hang out at each others houses, go on hikes and river tubing and stuff like that. I got to hang out with a lot of women and it never felt like a chore. A lot of them were already in relationships but even those girls were fun to hang out with. I had never really experienced genuine female friendship prior to that point in my life and I really enjoyed it. I distinctly remeber being at wedding with everyone, and taking my friends girlfriend to the dance floor to dance. It was cute and sweet and not weird at all. One night me and another girl were the last ones up. We were debating politics or something on the back porch and I just leaned in and kissed her. Im not going to lie, her reaction was awkward, but then she got it together and kissed me back. Long story short shes now my wife. :)
I guess the TLDR is that it can be fun to be young and single, if you can find a nice friend group with a good proportion of women.
I guess the TLDR is that it can be fun to be young and single, if you can find a nice friend group with a good proportion of women.