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Mine were toddlers only a few years ago. And the answer still goes back to time management. Two options. One, get all your shit done early, get the kids to bed, start your two hours. Two, designate two hours a day as your time, your wife gets her own two hours. You cover everything during their time, they cover everything during your time. My wife and I did both things. Now that the kids are in school, we use option 2.