It’s not that they avoid them, it’s that what should be considered red flags by everyone is rarely considered red flags, and eliminates 99% of women. If a woman has social media, that’s a huge red flag, and you’re playing with fire wether you want to admit it or not. How many women out there under 45 do you realistically think you could find that don’t have social media on their phone, and/or would agree to give it up when you started dating? Another one is if they have a bunch of single female family members, and friends she always talks to, and hangs out with.