It's like an endless cycle of having my heart broken or me breaking some nice girl's heart. I have to juggle multiple women at once to not waste time because chances are these little games last 1-2 dates. This is ridiculous. If you randomly stumbled across your wife without putting in much effort, consider yourself blessed.
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HimmlerWasRight88 on scored.co
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I appreciate that your post is constructive and tries to be helpful.
I don't have a problem with my confidence or with how I look. But this:
> One night stands on dating apps is very easy.
This is the most insane thing I've read all week.
It may be that it's easy *for you* because you're either handsome or jacked or you have some special quality which attracts women. But I guarantee you that for the 90% of men having sex from a dating app (or anywhere else for that matters) is extremely difficult.
I base this not only on my personal experience, but from what I read / see online and (especially) from simple logic: for every woman who wants casual sex, there are at least 10 men. Or more like 20 men.
Therefore it's a simple matter of math, that proves that it must be very difficult for a man to get laid.
Again, I know you were trying to be helpful but you come across as a rich guy telling a homeless person to get a job: your advice is not wrong, but it's not as easy for other people as it is for you.
They are very easy since you have the chance of getting a date while sitting on the toilet. Depends on population of the city too since bigger means more matches/people
I don't mean to come across that way. I am below the top men so above average which any man can get to. Wearing accessories can help stand out such as a necklace, watch, and bracelet.
I want to be as helpful as I can to any brothers by sharing my experience with what works compared to wasting time on a dating app. Dating apps can be addictive since takes 0 real effort to use and you get chances at dates.
All it takes is for 1 girl to become your gf. So asking out 100 girls and getting only 1 # is a huge win compared to doing nothing while blacks/arabs/jews/indians/mexicans have chances to steal what could have been your gf.
I don't have a problem with my confidence or with how I look. But this:
> One night stands on dating apps is very easy.
This is the most insane thing I've read all week.
It may be that it's easy *for you* because you're either handsome or jacked or you have some special quality which attracts women. But I guarantee you that for the 90% of men having sex from a dating app (or anywhere else for that matters) is extremely difficult.
I base this not only on my personal experience, but from what I read / see online and (especially) from simple logic: for every woman who wants casual sex, there are at least 10 men. Or more like 20 men.
Therefore it's a simple matter of math, that proves that it must be very difficult for a man to get laid.
Again, I know you were trying to be helpful but you come across as a rich guy telling a homeless person to get a job: your advice is not wrong, but it's not as easy for other people as it is for you.
I don't mean to come across that way. I am below the top men so above average which any man can get to. Wearing accessories can help stand out such as a necklace, watch, and bracelet.
I want to be as helpful as I can to any brothers by sharing my experience with what works compared to wasting time on a dating app. Dating apps can be addictive since takes 0 real effort to use and you get chances at dates.
All it takes is for 1 girl to become your gf. So asking out 100 girls and getting only 1 # is a huge win compared to doing nothing while blacks/arabs/jews/indians/mexicans have chances to steal what could have been your gf.