It's like an endless cycle of having my heart broken or me breaking some nice girl's heart. I have to juggle multiple women at once to not waste time because chances are these little games last 1-2 dates. This is ridiculous. If you randomly stumbled across your wife without putting in much effort, consider yourself blessed.
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ChargedUpCharger on scored.co
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I guess to address what you said more directly, no I agree you should not pretend you "just want to be friends" in order to get closer to a woman. That's cowardly and she'll know.
But that's not to say you can't be friends. If there's a girl in your friend group and you chat with and flirt with her from time to time but you're not dating most people would still call you "friends". Just not platonic friends.
Also, a lot of girls in your friend group will be with someone, or married. That's ok. While it would be weird to hang out with them alone, if you see them a lot it's still totally normal and healthy to be friends with them. There were a lot of "taken" women that I used to hang out with all the time, and I enjoyed their company.
But that's not to say you can't be friends. If there's a girl in your friend group and you chat with and flirt with her from time to time but you're not dating most people would still call you "friends". Just not platonic friends.
Also, a lot of girls in your friend group will be with someone, or married. That's ok. While it would be weird to hang out with them alone, if you see them a lot it's still totally normal and healthy to be friends with them. There were a lot of "taken" women that I used to hang out with all the time, and I enjoyed their company.