It's like an endless cycle of having my heart broken or me breaking some nice girl's heart. I have to juggle multiple women at once to not waste time because chances are these little games last 1-2 dates. This is ridiculous. If you randomly stumbled across your wife without putting in much effort, consider yourself blessed.
It'll be worth it eventually. Over the last year he was dating before he found someone halfway decent. If you're at least getting dates in today's world that means you're probably a good catch. Youll find someone good soon.