After the last [rice-post](https://communities.win/c/ConsumeProduct/p/19A1GoIRSn/never-chase-rice-/c) i've realized something very, very problematic in society
marriage nowadays isn't a sacred a union between a man and a woman, its a transaction
less and less marriages are based on trust and mutual love and mostly based on a woman's lust for the man's riches and the man's lust over a woman's well... you know
what is lacking in society is marriage that is based on trust, and the underlying issue of it all isn't just feminism or soy males, its people not marrying young
what do i mean by young? most people hold off marriage to either become financially stable or to "find the one" the latter end up with leftover rubbish and these relationships don't last
and i frankly think the ideal marriage is marriage that is based on struggle, what do i mean by struggle? [lets say two teenagers in love had a night of passion and got pregnant, and their parents are actual supportive Christians and not murderous jewish boomers](https://pomf2.lain.la/f/1htbqoa.mp4)
that is a marriage that is slated to last, because both the man and the woman are at the same age, same position and have mutual power-dynamic (one is not richer than the other, or more beautiful than the other) and both of them are determined and motivated to work hard and from a young age, not to mention young dudes with kids get preferential hiring priority (at least back in 2010's)
granted this kind of marriage was demonized to hell and back in the early 2000's, mostly because it happened due to lust and not genuine relationships, however i do genuinely see this as something plausible, the Germans literally had bride school for girls and boys went straight to military training, both of which married around the ages of 18-20 to encourage the birthrate
and i do genuinely think the early 20's are the ideal age to be a father/mother because after 30 your body starts to decay and deteriorate
but the big problem is really the economy, in this jewish economy its nigh impossible to raise a family proper, unless you forgo all non-essentials (TV, goyslop, vidya, social media, internet etc...)
but in an ideal world a family should have all the base comforts without having to sell their soul to jewish corporations, which is another factor why the birthrate is so damn low
because spics get free gibs and free housing, meanwhile joe and jane goyworker have to work 9 to 6 just to afford the bills (which includes mortgage) while their kids are subjected to the worst kind of abuse at the hands of marxists edjewcators
in an ideal situation, the parents can work and THEIR parents can HOMESCHOOL their kids 5-6 hours a day instead of burning their free time on watching TV or wageslaving in their late 60's, or the mother can work from home and still take care of the kids (good luck finding a modern woman who's willing to actually raise her kids instead of letting someone else do it but i digress)
in an event that jews are btfo'd from a certain state/country how would you encourage the birthrate in a more practical sense than what i've suggested?
marriage nowadays isn't a sacred a union between a man and a woman, its a transaction
less and less marriages are based on trust and mutual love and mostly based on a woman's lust for the man's riches and the man's lust over a woman's well... you know
what is lacking in society is marriage that is based on trust, and the underlying issue of it all isn't just feminism or soy males, its people not marrying young
what do i mean by young? most people hold off marriage to either become financially stable or to "find the one" the latter end up with leftover rubbish and these relationships don't last
and i frankly think the ideal marriage is marriage that is based on struggle, what do i mean by struggle? [lets say two teenagers in love had a night of passion and got pregnant, and their parents are actual supportive Christians and not murderous jewish boomers](https://pomf2.lain.la/f/1htbqoa.mp4)
that is a marriage that is slated to last, because both the man and the woman are at the same age, same position and have mutual power-dynamic (one is not richer than the other, or more beautiful than the other) and both of them are determined and motivated to work hard and from a young age, not to mention young dudes with kids get preferential hiring priority (at least back in 2010's)
granted this kind of marriage was demonized to hell and back in the early 2000's, mostly because it happened due to lust and not genuine relationships, however i do genuinely see this as something plausible, the Germans literally had bride school for girls and boys went straight to military training, both of which married around the ages of 18-20 to encourage the birthrate
and i do genuinely think the early 20's are the ideal age to be a father/mother because after 30 your body starts to decay and deteriorate
but the big problem is really the economy, in this jewish economy its nigh impossible to raise a family proper, unless you forgo all non-essentials (TV, goyslop, vidya, social media, internet etc...)
but in an ideal world a family should have all the base comforts without having to sell their soul to jewish corporations, which is another factor why the birthrate is so damn low
because spics get free gibs and free housing, meanwhile joe and jane goyworker have to work 9 to 6 just to afford the bills (which includes mortgage) while their kids are subjected to the worst kind of abuse at the hands of marxists edjewcators
in an ideal situation, the parents can work and THEIR parents can HOMESCHOOL their kids 5-6 hours a day instead of burning their free time on watching TV or wageslaving in their late 60's, or the mother can work from home and still take care of the kids (good luck finding a modern woman who's willing to actually raise her kids instead of letting someone else do it but i digress)
in an event that jews are btfo'd from a certain state/country how would you encourage the birthrate in a more practical sense than what i've suggested?
This. Parents and extended families have been nearly completely removed from the marriage equation. There this Hollywood idea that two people just fall in love and get married. No. It has never worked that way and it's no surprise that these marriages tend to end in divorce.
Parents should be much more involved in picking a partner for their kids and the kids should be more receptive to it. Parents not only have decades more experience with human nature, but they'll be thinking about things like "what will Christmas be like with these in-laws?" and "are we all on the same page in terms of things like religion, politics, and how to raise children?"
I know many people whose in-laws will meet once or twice for the wedding and then never speak again. The meme of a half-dozen different holiday dinners for the different families instead of one big gathering. Total lack of support or interest towards grandkids, other than as fancy pets. Total lack of training on how to be a good husband/wife. How does a good marriage flower in a field like this?
My suggestion is, if we want more marriages, for the parents to make that a priority and take a leading role in securing a good partner for their kids.