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1 year ago10 points(+0/-0/+10Score on mirror)1 child
Okay I'll give you my thoughts on this. Honoring your mother and father is like loving them. You love them by telling the truth and care taking their legacy, even if they don't understand your actions or they get angry. You don't honor them by laying a gift at their feet, you fight for their bloodline.
1 year ago6 points(+0/-0/+6Score on mirror)2 children
Thank you.
It's difficult because we never bonded.
Even as an infant, I didn't trust either of them and just tried to keep away from them to stay safe.
I've caught myself many times in my youth and even now, referring to my father or my mother as, "her husband" or "his wife". There is no family bond whatsoever.
That's rough. Unfortunately, its also quite common in our broken western families. As our families have been destroyed for generations now, each subsequent generation flailing about trying to maintain, while we are taught more and more destructive values. Our thought mentors for a long time have been on screens and radios, fantastical imaginings of a selfish and money hungry life somehow leading to happiness and stardom.
This broken bond, even between infand and mother is common. Its normal.
Merry Christmas and good luck with your family now. Honor your parents by learning from them, and not letting their mistakes be made in vain. Using them as a jumping point for your children
It's difficult because we never bonded.
Even as an infant, I didn't trust either of them and just tried to keep away from them to stay safe.
I've caught myself many times in my youth and even now, referring to my father or my mother as, "her husband" or "his wife". There is no family bond whatsoever.
This broken bond, even between infand and mother is common. Its normal.
Merry Christmas and good luck with your family now. Honor your parents by learning from them, and not letting their mistakes be made in vain. Using them as a jumping point for your children