Modern dating standards.
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survey after survey shows that most women on dating apps don't even want a date... they just want validation and attention. of those who are on apps, they will regularly double or triple book dates, and then just show up to the guy they're most attracted to. they flake out on the others without even mentioning they're cancelling. all because there's no downside to engaging in such toxic behavior. they're never held to account for it.
then enshitification comes in. match group owns practically all of the dating apps now, and they hired researchers to change the app mechanics to intentionally drag everything out, string you along as long as possible. they want you thirsty and desperate enough that you will pay, but never satisfied by a date enough that you two actually hit it off.