And what sucks is when you bring up these things with them, they often times think you’re just being a controlling chauvinist, who just wants to shame, and mansplain them. It’s unfortunate, but the only, or at least most successful way you’re getting, and keeping the average females attention today, is to engage, and participate in a bunch of normy/NPC behavior, including mindless consumption. Of course, this is a recipe for disaster because you’re just going to slowly kill yourself with stress, and cortisol due to living a lie and being miserable participating in things you loathe.