Literally gods work. You are 100% correct and my wife and I talk about seeing these same issues in women around us. Church women are slightly better but no guarantee. Mostly its people caught up in the ways of the world, I myself also, as husband and father, find myself developing issues from this lack of focus as well.
crabs in a bucket, in their view everyone should be as miserable as they are
which is why you shouldn't let your wife hang out with childless harpies because they'll negatively impact women around them to be just as toxic as useless as they are
hell i'd say the same about unmarried dudes who are addicted to pornography and hard drugs, miserable people like miserable company and one should be extremely selective of his choice of company he or she keeps
you want to surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you rather than people who drag you to their level.
They will encourage miscegenation, boxed wine, boss babe mentality, and cat lady lifestyle.