What would you do if your 18 year old friend took too much blackpill and became an unmotivated neet who smokes weed all day?
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1 year ago7 points(+0/-0/+7Score on mirror)5 children
He seems to have lost the motivation to do anything but he's not willing to talk about it, I think it's a combination of things. 'Life is gonna suck anyway so why bother' attitude. He also has a similar view of women, cause all the women his age are sluts so he doesn't even consider the possibility of having a serious relationship. I hope this helps, I don't really know much cause he's only around if there are drugs and he runs from any serious conversation.
1 year ago4 points(+0/-0/+4Score on mirror)1 child
These are the best suggestions I can make without actually knowing the person:
* Start regularly taking him to political rallies and protests and encourage him to speak with these people, take names and write down different local organizations that he can follow. Anything that appeals to him from prepping, Israeli boycotts, anti-abortion, etc... not to make him become an activist but to help him feel a connection and to remind him that he is surrounded by role models he can identify with. No nationalist has ever felt isolated after attending a rally.
* Similarly to the activist rallies, encourage him to find a church to attend every week. This will build his relationship with Jesus and his community. Perhaps do a little research on his behalf to find a true Christian church rather than a jew-subverted gay pride den of wokeness.
* Remind your friend there are girls at church and at those rallies :-). Remind your friend that life is full of risks where you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. EVERY SINGLE ONE of these risks should be taken. Stepping up and be ruthless about introducing himself to cute women are such risks.
* Encourage him to make a prayer station in his bedroom. A space dedicated to Christ where he can speak and ask questions. This will help remind him that he has a best friend in Jesus that has always stood beside him and would die for him. This will help remind him that Jesus is always there and always watching. It might motivate him to live better.
* What the NatSoc did 1933-1938 was amazing: they transformed their broken, impoverished, Weimar culture into the most spiritually powerful, economically powerful, architecturally beautiful nations in human history and they did it in only a few years. Remind your friend of this.
* I find it helps to recognize our Earthly-existence as a place to mature emotionally and spiritually so we can make a rational and informed choice about embracing or denying Jesus. God designed our existence to be a roller-coaster so we'll learn from our mistakes and grow rather than becoming entitled, vapid, spiritually bankrupt twats. Try to encourage your friend to recognize bumps, lumps, mistakes, trials and crises as answered prayers designed to help him to grow spiritually, mentally and emotionally strong. This perspective may give your friend something to think about.
That's about all I can suggest without knowing more about him.
1 year ago3 points(+0/-0/+3Score on mirror)4 children
Leave him behind. He's a slug. Find a new friend who is motivated like you.
Leave this slug behind. Sprinkle salt on him and watch him melt.
If he asks why you don't want to hang out again, be brutally honest. Because you are a lazy dopey slug and I want to be around motivated upbeat sober energetic ambitious people.
But don't waste your time with friends who are holding you back. How strong is the friendship really? 18 year olds dont always have the best friends. Also, how many friends did you have when you were 18 that you are still friends with today? You can probably count them on one hand.
I remember when I was saving up money to buy land. I was very motivated. But i had a few friends who, for one reason or another, kept poo-poo'ing my goals and ambition. Was it jealousy? Did they not really want to see me achieve? The crab in the bucket mentality is prevalent. Some people really just dont want to see you get ahead. Maybe it is because they know they are going to get left behind.
* Start regularly taking him to political rallies and protests and encourage him to speak with these people, take names and write down different local organizations that he can follow. Anything that appeals to him from prepping, Israeli boycotts, anti-abortion, etc... not to make him become an activist but to help him feel a connection and to remind him that he is surrounded by role models he can identify with. No nationalist has ever felt isolated after attending a rally.
* Similarly to the activist rallies, encourage him to find a church to attend every week. This will build his relationship with Jesus and his community. Perhaps do a little research on his behalf to find a true Christian church rather than a jew-subverted gay pride den of wokeness.
* Remind your friend there are girls at church and at those rallies :-). Remind your friend that life is full of risks where you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. EVERY SINGLE ONE of these risks should be taken. Stepping up and be ruthless about introducing himself to cute women are such risks.
* Encourage him to make a prayer station in his bedroom. A space dedicated to Christ where he can speak and ask questions. This will help remind him that he has a best friend in Jesus that has always stood beside him and would die for him. This will help remind him that Jesus is always there and always watching. It might motivate him to live better.
* What the NatSoc did 1933-1938 was amazing: they transformed their broken, impoverished, Weimar culture into the most spiritually powerful, economically powerful, architecturally beautiful nations in human history and they did it in only a few years. Remind your friend of this.
* I find it helps to recognize our Earthly-existence as a place to mature emotionally and spiritually so we can make a rational and informed choice about embracing or denying Jesus. God designed our existence to be a roller-coaster so we'll learn from our mistakes and grow rather than becoming entitled, vapid, spiritually bankrupt twats. Try to encourage your friend to recognize bumps, lumps, mistakes, trials and crises as answered prayers designed to help him to grow spiritually, mentally and emotionally strong. This perspective may give your friend something to think about.
That's about all I can suggest without knowing more about him.
Leave this slug behind. Sprinkle salt on him and watch him melt.
If he asks why you don't want to hang out again, be brutally honest. Because you are a lazy dopey slug and I want to be around motivated upbeat sober energetic ambitious people.
i'd suggest he try the Gym method and if the dude genuinely don't wanna self-improve that's on him and he should leave
But don't waste your time with friends who are holding you back. How strong is the friendship really? 18 year olds dont always have the best friends. Also, how many friends did you have when you were 18 that you are still friends with today? You can probably count them on one hand.
I remember when I was saving up money to buy land. I was very motivated. But i had a few friends who, for one reason or another, kept poo-poo'ing my goals and ambition. Was it jealousy? Did they not really want to see me achieve? The crab in the bucket mentality is prevalent. Some people really just dont want to see you get ahead. Maybe it is because they know they are going to get left behind.
i was talking about the dude in the thread who is basically defeated by his own hedonism
Does he read? Do anything?
Leave this slug behind. Sprinkle salt on him and watch him melt.