But don't waste your time with friends who are holding you back. How strong is the friendship really? 18 year olds dont always have the best friends. Also, how many friends did you have when you were 18 that you are still friends with today? You can probably count them on one hand.
I remember when I was saving up money to buy land. I was very motivated. But i had a few friends who, for one reason or another, kept poo-poo'ing my goals and ambition. Was it jealousy? Did they not really want to see me achieve? The crab in the bucket mentality is prevalent. Some people really just dont want to see you get ahead. Maybe it is because they know they are going to get left behind.
i'd suggest he try the Gym method and if the dude genuinely don't wanna self-improve that's on him and he should leave
But don't waste your time with friends who are holding you back. How strong is the friendship really? 18 year olds dont always have the best friends. Also, how many friends did you have when you were 18 that you are still friends with today? You can probably count them on one hand.
I remember when I was saving up money to buy land. I was very motivated. But i had a few friends who, for one reason or another, kept poo-poo'ing my goals and ambition. Was it jealousy? Did they not really want to see me achieve? The crab in the bucket mentality is prevalent. Some people really just dont want to see you get ahead. Maybe it is because they know they are going to get left behind.
i was talking about the dude in the thread who is basically defeated by his own hedonism