Unfortunately, only reason to even entertain most women today over 30 is for casual sex, which I have absolutely no interest in since it has its own dangers, and pitfalls. Because of this I’m cordial with most women in passing, but really have no reason to torture myself, and waste my time with them otherwise. If I could find a younger one that wasn’t FUBAR, I would love having a child, but usually if she’s young, healthy, and without child, she’s already locked down, or single for a reason. I haven’t given completely up, but I do realize the widow is almost closed for my particular situation when paired with the mOOdern “relationship” landscape.