Well, it's like dating someone at your gym. If it doesn't work out, now you can't go to that gym/church anymore. That's the real reason people don't do it
Anyone can obtain that frankly. The bar is so low nowadays. The question isn't how WE as men will get there, but rather questioning if a woman is worth our time and investment (we do lose everything in a divorce after-all). Gotta be super picky