I agree, sir. But unless you or your friend plan on staying in the other country, it is my experience that when women are immigrated from outside the US to the US, they become infected with the same culture cancer that you've described above. I've tried explaining this to others who have chosen to make the same move, only to watch their lives and families fall apart several years later as these 'great traditional women ' turn into zog whores. I do wish you best of luck, regardless.