I've spent 20 years of my life on it. I really don't think it's worth any man spending time on because if you end up empty handed like me, it's a huge waste of time/resources. Better for men to focus on themselves, never think of women, and if one happens to come a man's way, great. If not, then great. Hence, dating is pointless for men (or should be). Men shouldn't spend any energy on women.