16 days ago18 points(+0/-0/+18Score on mirror)3 children
Unironically, the whole reason I live in my van and work 50 hours a week trying to scrape together as much money as I can in my youth is specifically so that I can create something to pass on to my children if I ever have them.
My childhood *sucked.* Parents abusive, selfish pieces of shit. Built nothing for their children and left them with only scars. I had to go without the basic developmental scaffolding every child deserves, and then take on the world alone—with nothing to my name but that which I built myself.
I wouldn't wish that on *anyone.* It's sad. It's lonely. It's *hard.* If I have a baby, I want to hold it every time it cries. As he or she grows, I want to teach them every single thing they need to know about life. I want the home they grow up in to be a place that they know they're always safe in, and will be what they inherit for themselves and their children. I want it to be 100% paid off before they have it (or as close as you can get to that in kike world) so that they don't have to spend their lives as slaves.
I don't want them to know any of the hardship I did, even if it means my own life must be filled with pain and sacrifice, and even if I was never allowed to receive the things that make a human whole. I want to break the cycle.
Sorry. This topic makes me extremely emotional for some reason. I get overwhelmed thinking about it.
I see it way too often; someone had a hard shitty upbringing and swings the pendulum way too far in the opposite direction, giving their children everything and coddling them to the nth degree. The child ends up a rotten, useless and utterly depressed adult that can't navigate small hardships or accomplish anything because they never had to try
I'm well aware. I definitely have plans for how I would make sure they develop discipline and responsibility. But there's a line between that and psychological abuse. I'm hyper-aware of where that line sits, and I'm never going to cross it.
16 days ago4 points(+0/-0/+4Score on mirror)1 child
Sounds like you have a good plan.
You can save up a lot of money living in RV, pull behind camper, large van.
The most expensive bill for most people is the Rent / Mortgage payment. You've eliminated that, you genius.
I know lots of people who were fucked over by irresponsible parents but still managed to build businesses that gross over a million dollars revenue per year. Friend started out pushing lawn mowers now he manages the landscape for multi-million dollar properties and has three crews of four guys working every day with all kinds of expensive trucks and equipment. Has a warehouse too.
There's plenty of money out here to make. Most people have lots of money because they work in the rat race. Even teachers are raking in $80K per year. No one wants to fix their own roof leaks or maintain their own HVAC or fix their own cars or mow their own grass. They pay lots of money for us to do this work.
15 days ago2 points(+0/-0/+2Score on mirror)1 child
I live in a Dodge minivan 🥴
Admittedly, I absolutely lack an entrepreneurial instinct. After taxes, I'm pocketing about 48k yearly as a company driver. All the guys around here saying they make 80, 100, 400k are baffling to me. Still enough to meet my goals, though. Just slower going.
There's 52 weeks in a year. Subtract sick time vacation time maybe that gives you 48 actual working weeks. And you are pulling in a grand per week. That's good.
You should be able to save at least $1000 per month, or $12K per year.
In some places in the nation, the average salary is about $80K for normie jobs such as a public school teacher. That's before taxes, though.
Usually the people pulling $80-100K per year are not very thrifty and blow about $10-20K on nicer vehicle, eating out at restaurants, etc.
It's not about how much you make. It's about how much you save. I have friends who make over twice as much as I do but they're renting, don't own their vehicles fully (payment plans), have tons of debt meaning they can't just walk away from their jobs like I can, etc. They dont have any gold or silver coins while my stack keeps growing. They might have money stuck in 401k but they can't liquidate it or reallocate into real estate or gold.
I think your plan is good and i'm rooting for ya. Five years from now you'll come back on here and have a wife a farm kids who knows. Just keep focused and determined. Lots of people out here don't even have any fucking determination. They're so numb from drugs, marijuana, alcohol, depression, they're too blackpilled to even improve their own lives anymore.
16 days ago8 points(+0/-0/+8Score on mirror)1 child
I had children out of wedlock. Had to go through custody battles and stuff. Very stressful. Still better than having no children at all.
And my children are awesome.
I teach my children very differently than everyone else. I j-pill them and redpill them and teach them not to trust government or cops and never relax around blacks and all that stuff before they even get to age 10. I drag them to jobs with me and make them work for all the stuff they want. I make them interface with customers, learn social interaction but also not to trust most people. They learn lots from us living on homestead, farm animals and such. They learn about death, where meat comes from, the work it takes to grow food. They help me build stuff and fix tractor engines and work on dirt bikes and stuff.
We got pregnant on the very first try, nine months later we had the cutest blond haired blue eyed baby girl. I wish I could get gibs because I’d have 10 more.
I like this, but the reality is you can’t do it alone, and there aren’t many good healthy trustworthy responsible women to plant them in. There definitely aren’t enough willing to settle for an average man anymore. Hopefully it corrects itself within the next 25 years if we’re all still here. .
Watched the Paul doc last night
He was the richest most popular pop star
Leaves it to live in a run down shack in cold AF ultra rural Scottland. Spends all his time with his family.
Then gets back in the business and wont tour without his family. Adopts his wife's kid from a prior marriage. Has dogs and gawd awful sheep. Rams on...
not sure why you want to raise another man's child. i never really wanted to. in rare circumstances i imagine i might, but those are not circumstances i seek out.
I know I won't live to see the tree grow, so I'd just plant it just because. So future generations can enjoy it. Like I said. It's good for the environment. Lol
My childhood *sucked.* Parents abusive, selfish pieces of shit. Built nothing for their children and left them with only scars. I had to go without the basic developmental scaffolding every child deserves, and then take on the world alone—with nothing to my name but that which I built myself.
I wouldn't wish that on *anyone.* It's sad. It's lonely. It's *hard.* If I have a baby, I want to hold it every time it cries. As he or she grows, I want to teach them every single thing they need to know about life. I want the home they grow up in to be a place that they know they're always safe in, and will be what they inherit for themselves and their children. I want it to be 100% paid off before they have it (or as close as you can get to that in kike world) so that they don't have to spend their lives as slaves.
I don't want them to know any of the hardship I did, even if it means my own life must be filled with pain and sacrifice, and even if I was never allowed to receive the things that make a human whole. I want to break the cycle.
Sorry. This topic makes me extremely emotional for some reason. I get overwhelmed thinking about it.
You can save up a lot of money living in RV, pull behind camper, large van.
The most expensive bill for most people is the Rent / Mortgage payment. You've eliminated that, you genius.
I know lots of people who were fucked over by irresponsible parents but still managed to build businesses that gross over a million dollars revenue per year. Friend started out pushing lawn mowers now he manages the landscape for multi-million dollar properties and has three crews of four guys working every day with all kinds of expensive trucks and equipment. Has a warehouse too.
There's plenty of money out here to make. Most people have lots of money because they work in the rat race. Even teachers are raking in $80K per year. No one wants to fix their own roof leaks or maintain their own HVAC or fix their own cars or mow their own grass. They pay lots of money for us to do this work.
Admittedly, I absolutely lack an entrepreneurial instinct. After taxes, I'm pocketing about 48k yearly as a company driver. All the guys around here saying they make 80, 100, 400k are baffling to me. Still enough to meet my goals, though. Just slower going.
There's 52 weeks in a year. Subtract sick time vacation time maybe that gives you 48 actual working weeks. And you are pulling in a grand per week. That's good.
You should be able to save at least $1000 per month, or $12K per year.
In some places in the nation, the average salary is about $80K for normie jobs such as a public school teacher. That's before taxes, though.
Usually the people pulling $80-100K per year are not very thrifty and blow about $10-20K on nicer vehicle, eating out at restaurants, etc.
It's not about how much you make. It's about how much you save. I have friends who make over twice as much as I do but they're renting, don't own their vehicles fully (payment plans), have tons of debt meaning they can't just walk away from their jobs like I can, etc. They dont have any gold or silver coins while my stack keeps growing. They might have money stuck in 401k but they can't liquidate it or reallocate into real estate or gold.
I think your plan is good and i'm rooting for ya. Five years from now you'll come back on here and have a wife a farm kids who knows. Just keep focused and determined. Lots of people out here don't even have any fucking determination. They're so numb from drugs, marijuana, alcohol, depression, they're too blackpilled to even improve their own lives anymore.
I only hope you find a righteous woman to carry your children 🙏🏻