I see it way too often; someone had a hard shitty upbringing and swings the pendulum way too far in the opposite direction, giving their children everything and coddling them to the nth degree. The child ends up a rotten, useless and utterly depressed adult that can't navigate small hardships or accomplish anything because they never had to try
I'm well aware. I definitely have plans for how I would make sure they develop discipline and responsibility. But there's a line between that and psychological abuse. I'm hyper-aware of where that line sits, and I'm never going to cross it.