I know this is a place for politics, memes, racism, and whatever. But I feel this is warranted given that the white race is dwindling and that we so desperately want to have many kids.
Husband and I were excited to soon publicly announce our pregnancy. I was about ten weeks along. Went in for my first prenatal appointment and then scheduled and ultrasound. Before I could even get that ultrasound, I started bleeding. Went to the ER to find out I had miscarried.
We’re, of course, devastated. This was our first pregnancy (as we’ve been patiently trying for a while). Apart from the physical and emotional pain, I think we’re also very discouraged. Ready to try again when possible, but also praying for a better outcome, hoping that this was just part of the high miscarriage statistics within the first trimester and nothing to do with fertility.
So, I’m just asking for any prayer, encouragement, advice, etc. as we navigate this grief and move on to trying again.
Thank you, ConPro.
Oh fuck... I can't imagine the horror of losing a child like this (well i can, but you're not vaxxed)
I cannot really offer you other advise other than try and try again, i really wonder what was the trigger point for the miscarriage, is it stress? Is it hormonal? Environmental?
I know the older you get the harder it is to get pregnant (and maintain it) and judging by your mannerisms you around 30 something right?
I had a cousin who married somewhat late and even after 5 years of marriage he still didn't manage to get his woman pregnant
Think he had a narrow urethra or she was barren (maybe a bit of both) he's a good bloke though, takes good care of his father and highly respectful to his mother
Again... I think you need to keep trying, if you're still in your 30's you got a couple of good fertile years in you