3 hours ago-1 points(+0/-0/-1Score on mirror)1 child
For a woman it's her most important day of her life.
So we shouldn't be too fucking cheap, LOL
I'm okay with the back yard BBQ and playing banjo but women want attention, celebration, cheer, decoration and all that woman stuff. So i say entertain some of those female delusions for her if it makes her happy on the biggest day of her life.
Moderate her CONSOOMERISM with the idea that money not blown on the wedding can be down payment on the legacy of the marriage such as land, a home, saving for the first child, etc.
yeah, precisely. i'd honestly be willing to spend $500-$1000 on a "big family gathering" type wedding with food and drink and decorations, but never for a woman who's not willing to do it for $0.
ever since the world decided married couples were something to target and beat down instead of support and give benefits, there's zero reason to get legally married anyway. hell, i've heard some countries will treat you as married legally if you just live together a while when it comes to helping rip you apart later, so it's clear they really want re-atomization to be as common and traumatic as possible.
So we shouldn't be too fucking cheap, LOL
I'm okay with the back yard BBQ and playing banjo but women want attention, celebration, cheer, decoration and all that woman stuff. So i say entertain some of those female delusions for her if it makes her happy on the biggest day of her life.
Moderate her CONSOOMERISM with the idea that money not blown on the wedding can be down payment on the legacy of the marriage such as land, a home, saving for the first child, etc.
Go ask your male friends how glad they are they spent 30K on fucking “make me a princess” day. I’ll wait.
ever since the world decided married couples were something to target and beat down instead of support and give benefits, there's zero reason to get legally married anyway. hell, i've heard some countries will treat you as married legally if you just live together a while when it comes to helping rip you apart later, so it's clear they really want re-atomization to be as common and traumatic as possible.