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I was always a guy who would have a lot of short-term friendships even though I tried to maintain relationships. It's weird because once people got to know me they like me less and less as time goes on also. Never got invited to anything, always had to initiate every conversation.

So what is the issue here?
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Npc070201 on scored.co
3 months ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror ) 3 children
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.
Read it.
Ucanifuthink2 on scored.co
3 months ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror )
It is a good read. The "influence people" is not a negative thing.
OttomanJannisary on scored.co
3 months ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror ) 1 child
sounds like a gay book for gay faggots
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Npc070201 on scored.co
3 months ago 10 points (+0 / -0 / +10Score on mirror )
That response is exactly why no one wants to be friends with you. I'd bet that you're incapable of self-reflection. Good luck with that.
KyleIsThisTall on scored.co
3 months ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
How to make enemies and irritate people by Screeching Weasel.
SilverGolfer on scored.co
3 months ago 2 points (+0 / -0 / +2Score on mirror ) 1 child
you probably have zero hobbies and a toxic attitude
OttomanJannisary on scored.co
3 months ago 0 points (+0 / -0 ) 1 child
I like to talk, I gymcel, most of my hobbies are just stuff I know and talk about, I wouldn't say I am a boring person, I have lots to talk about, but I don't feel like I am a super active person either when it comes to doing a bunch of activities.
Npc070201 on scored.co
3 months ago 1 point (+0 / -0 / +1Score on mirror ) 1 child
Do you only talk about yourself and your own interests to other people? Or do you ask about them and show genuine interest in their lives and what they have to say?

If you want to become friends with the kind of people who will get real with you and have your back and be your ride or die....you have to become one of those people first.

Like attracts like, birds of a feather flock together, etc.

Be the kind of person you want to be friends with, and those same kind of people will find you.
OttomanJannisary on scored.co
3 months ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
No I actually like listening to people, but no one really reciprocates the same thing back.
Knight_Of_Saint_John on scored.co
3 months ago 0 points (+0 / -0 ) 1 child
How many girlfriends did you had?
OttomanJannisary on scored.co
3 months ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
All of them were short flings
Toujours2 on scored.co
3 months ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
You’re talking too much for sure. Next time you have a chance to join a circle of people just stand there pleasantly. Laugh when someone is funny. Listen attentively. Respond with the absolute shortest most pleasant thing you can think to say. Once you can do that without repelling people you can try to say 1 slightly longer thing. Like a full sentence. Work on that as long as you can. I hate to tell you this but you have no idea that you are probably arrogant and insufferable. Humility is the only way. That and reading lots of interesting books.
2016TrumpMAGA on scored.co
3 months ago 0 points (+0 / -0 )
Being a twat.
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