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LilyVargas on scored.co
23 hours ago 11 points (+0 / -0 / +11Score on mirror ) 2 children
Never leave your wife's side. Check anaesthetiscs are working before painful procedures, but generally avoid interventions as they are generally bad unless they are necessary then they are life saving but they will always claim they are necessary so you need to know what is needed and when. Use [BRAIN](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/f7/66/eb/f766ebafe257491cd2524eb56a96d4fb.jpg) .

Watch Rikki Lake's The Business of Being Born documentary movie and it's sequel (More Business of Being Born).

[Wait for White](https://images.saymedia-content.com/.image/c_limit,cs_srgb,q_auto:eco,w_700/MTc0NTk0Mjc5ODc4OTYxMDk3/delayed-cord-clamping-15-mins-that-could-change-your-babys-life.png) [delayed cord clamping](https://images.saymedia-content.com/.image/c_limit,cs_srgb,q_auto:eco,w_700/MTc0NTk0Mjc5ODc4OTYxMDk3/delayed-cord-clamping-15-mins-that-could-change-your-babys-life.png) means different things to different people (some call 30 seconds a delay). Milk the cord toward baby before cutting if necessary.

Unless emergency (again you need to learn a real one looks like because they will say it is necessary every time) dont do the fake oxytocin shot or pulling on the cord to accelerate the placenta being birthed. Birth doesn't count as over until it's out so they want it out asap but unless youre wife is bleeding to death or it has been hours it is more risk to try and accelerate it then to just wait.

Don't vaccinate. No vitamin K shot, if you're worried about brain bleeding load your wife up with foods high in VitK for weeks prior.

Don't genitally mutilate your baby.

Weighing and measuring can wait, do the Golden Hour, baby skin to skin on mum for an hour after birth preferably dim lights and create calm atmosphere.

Unless meconium (poo) is on your baby, dont wash them for at least 1 day or until they are actually dirty. The cheese varnish they are born with is very beneficial to their skin, if it's visible you can rub it in but don't rub it off.
mommamany on scored.co
20 hours ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror )
This is all fantastic, Lily! Well said.
DonaldDucktator on scored.co
23 hours ago 3 points (+0 / -0 / +3Score on mirror )
Thank you. This is a very good summary.
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Theunpopular1 on scored.co
1 day ago 10 points (+0 / -0 / +10Score on mirror ) 1 child
I don't. But if it's a boy, they'll try to cut the tip of his dick off. Don't let them.

They'll try to take cord-blood. Don't let them.

They will try to give them vaccinations as soon as the baby is out of the womb. Don't let them.
DonaldDucktator on scored.co
23 hours ago 4 points (+0 / -0 / +4Score on mirror ) 1 child
Yeah, that was the gist of it. I'd love to have the good explanations from that post.
Theunpopular1 on scored.co
23 hours ago 7 points (+0 / -0 / +7Score on mirror )
My main concern was the circumcision (obviously I don't want them cutting parts off my newborn) and the cord-blood.

"They use the stem cells in the cord blood to help other people!"

No, fuck you. My newborn baby needs all the help he can get, tyvm.

Literally the second they're born, docs start trying to harvest body parts from them. It's mind blowing.
mommamany on scored.co
20 hours ago 6 points (+0 / -0 / +6Score on mirror )
Is your wife expecting a little one? I hope so and God bless you and your family! The advice here is wonderful. In addition to the hospital stay, I would try to prepare a bunch of freezer meals before birth to make everyone's life a little easier, especially if you have other children at home. Bone broth is easy to make and full of collagen to help with healing.

Your wife obviously has a very important role, but this is where you as a husband and new father are going to shine. Stay close to your wife and especially your baby, drawing from your God-given role as protector and making sure that they are tended to. I don't think that you need to be fearful about this, but just be very diligent. Hospitals certainly serve a purpose but they are a business first and foremost.
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