I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Unfortunately, many women are ruined today, and there's not much you can do besides try to weed those ones out as quickly as possible, and not ruin her yourself.
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If a man isn't misogynistic to some degree, then he isn't trustworthy.
Continue hating women in general just don't mistreat women now and in the future because of the past transgressions other women committed against you. Women's nature as a whole shouldn't be well regarded by men because their nature is objectively inferior.
Continue hating women in general just don't mistreat women now and in the future because of the past transgressions other women committed against you. Women's nature as a whole shouldn't be well regarded by men because their nature is objectively inferior.
Do not hate women, how can you hate them for their own nature? That's like hating a dog for drooling on you. Nature is imperfect, a competent man can either fix the problem or work around it.
One would be remiss to think pathetic men aren't half the problem.
One would be remiss to think pathetic men aren't half the problem.
Do you hate mosquitoes or wasps? Now imagine wasps that didn't just sting you but actively worked to make men lives worse.
Yes, pathetic men are part of the problem but there's less pathetic men than there are women who actively work against men. Women are the primary problem and pathetic men the secondary.
A competent man is powerless in our society no matter how much you want to imagine that you yourself has control. We live in a female and betacuck dominated society where a man's competence is irrelevant to his success in fixing the female problem. Can a man who is exactly what women want circumvent the problem for himself? Yes, but this man is a pathetic man for a truly competent and not pathetic man doesn't need to be anything women desire in a man and what women desire in men is inherently degenerate. The most competent men are often the least successful with regards to the women problem. Every black man a White woman sleeps with has been designated superior to you by her. This is why what women want is irrelevant to competence. Even men like Elon Musk can't get what he wants from women. That should be enough proof that competence is irrelevant.
Hate the jew more than women but women should be hated to some degree also because if a man truly understands women's nature then he won't be able to help but to hate women at least a little.
A man who tells me he loves women and doesn't hate them even a little comes off as a pathetic man to me. What good is his love of women? It serves no useful purpose. A woman will love a man who hates women if he's everything else she wants and she'll hate a man who loves women if he isn't everything else he wants so don't love women on account of women and if you're being a man's man, then you ought to hate women for men's sake.
Yes, pathetic men are part of the problem but there's less pathetic men than there are women who actively work against men. Women are the primary problem and pathetic men the secondary.
A competent man is powerless in our society no matter how much you want to imagine that you yourself has control. We live in a female and betacuck dominated society where a man's competence is irrelevant to his success in fixing the female problem. Can a man who is exactly what women want circumvent the problem for himself? Yes, but this man is a pathetic man for a truly competent and not pathetic man doesn't need to be anything women desire in a man and what women desire in men is inherently degenerate. The most competent men are often the least successful with regards to the women problem. Every black man a White woman sleeps with has been designated superior to you by her. This is why what women want is irrelevant to competence. Even men like Elon Musk can't get what he wants from women. That should be enough proof that competence is irrelevant.
Hate the jew more than women but women should be hated to some degree also because if a man truly understands women's nature then he won't be able to help but to hate women at least a little.
A man who tells me he loves women and doesn't hate them even a little comes off as a pathetic man to me. What good is his love of women? It serves no useful purpose. A woman will love a man who hates women if he's everything else she wants and she'll hate a man who loves women if he isn't everything else he wants so don't love women on account of women and if you're being a man's man, then you ought to hate women for men's sake.
Maybe hate doesn't mean the same thing to me as it does to you. Yeah my wife annoys the crap out of me daily, and the fact that women in general are retarded, but ultimately I did my part in finding a woman who follows Christ and therefore respects her husband. Easier to look past the human flaws when the intent is pure.
I don't think our discussion is an argument worth having tbh. Like you said in the first like of your post, it's likely just a semantic difference.
The OP is asking how he can not hate women because he recognizes that now that he has experienced reality, with regards to women, it's difficult for him not to hate. He doesn't want to hate because he knows that will prevent him from ever finding an exception to the rule, like you have found.
Exceptions exist but they are very few and in modernity, we see with evidence that most men will never find an exception. I think it's fair to hate women as a whole but still recognize exceptions exist. I hate mosquitoes but maybe one mosquito won't bite me. Even still, I'm not going to love mosquitos just because an exception exists. I'll perhaps love that one mosquito for being the exception but still hate the rest of them.
The OP is asking how he can not hate women because he recognizes that now that he has experienced reality, with regards to women, it's difficult for him not to hate. He doesn't want to hate because he knows that will prevent him from ever finding an exception to the rule, like you have found.
Exceptions exist but they are very few and in modernity, we see with evidence that most men will never find an exception. I think it's fair to hate women as a whole but still recognize exceptions exist. I hate mosquitoes but maybe one mosquito won't bite me. Even still, I'm not going to love mosquitos just because an exception exists. I'll perhaps love that one mosquito for being the exception but still hate the rest of them.
If you hate most women in America, you are probably a pretty decent person.
The jews have targeted women to poison our society. Hating women is the same as rejecting jewish social programming.
The jews have targeted women to poison our society. Hating women is the same as rejecting jewish social programming.
Look For Minority of People
Simple answer to me is you're looking for a single person to date / marry, so you can expect possibly that 99% (or 99.999999%) of people are just not the right match. So your ex is part of that 99%+ and you don't need to take it personally or sweat it. My view is there is a small minority of people who I am compatible with and I just need to find those people and forget the rest (this also applies to friendships). Majority of people don't know of conpro or related topics. Just avoid them if you can or limit involvement if possible?
Relationships as Class Issue?
Secondly I did some research after bad experiences with dating (before finding the above principle) and it seems like dating is a class issue, where middle class people are generally getting married and staying married (more, but maybe not entirely) and working class are not as much. So if you're working class, it's again not personal, it's just part of a statistics of the culture (the upper middle class I think made marriage too expensive and so may have "priced out" the working class, and also maybe destroyed their culture).
Link on topic: https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-marriage-divide-how-and-why-working-class-families-are-more-fragile-today
Focus on Personal Development
So I guess in the meantime, you enjoy friends and family, work hard at building life in general, can try to form a relationship, and see what happens. If a relationship does not happen, imo it is not necessarily your fault - people are marrying less in general.
https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-3-a-record-share-of-young-adults-will-never-marry
(I have to say at this point, past relationships or ones I wanted, I mostly am glad I am not in at this point lol. Of course maybe you'd wish people would "notice more" AND be in a relationship with you, maybe, but at present there are many people still asleep. So there can be worse fates than being single...)
Simple answer to me is you're looking for a single person to date / marry, so you can expect possibly that 99% (or 99.999999%) of people are just not the right match. So your ex is part of that 99%+ and you don't need to take it personally or sweat it. My view is there is a small minority of people who I am compatible with and I just need to find those people and forget the rest (this also applies to friendships). Majority of people don't know of conpro or related topics. Just avoid them if you can or limit involvement if possible?
Relationships as Class Issue?
Secondly I did some research after bad experiences with dating (before finding the above principle) and it seems like dating is a class issue, where middle class people are generally getting married and staying married (more, but maybe not entirely) and working class are not as much. So if you're working class, it's again not personal, it's just part of a statistics of the culture (the upper middle class I think made marriage too expensive and so may have "priced out" the working class, and also maybe destroyed their culture).
Link on topic: https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-marriage-divide-how-and-why-working-class-families-are-more-fragile-today
Focus on Personal Development
So I guess in the meantime, you enjoy friends and family, work hard at building life in general, can try to form a relationship, and see what happens. If a relationship does not happen, imo it is not necessarily your fault - people are marrying less in general.
https://ifstudies.org/blog/1-in-3-a-record-share-of-young-adults-will-never-marry
(I have to say at this point, past relationships or ones I wanted, I mostly am glad I am not in at this point lol. Of course maybe you'd wish people would "notice more" AND be in a relationship with you, maybe, but at present there are many people still asleep. So there can be worse fates than being single...)
A good starting point would be to try and think of women as not something completely different from you, but your more-or-less equal, the yin to the yang, emotion to the reason, where one cannot exist without the other.
>The woman I was dating turned out to be a treasonous unfixable degenerate piece of shit
Unfortunately that's something you'll hear nearly every day. One of my friends has had three girlfriends and all of them cheated on him. There's no moral, nothing you can take away. Some stories don't have a happy ending. Some are just depressing. If it turns you away from dating and love forever, so be it. That's your choice. A point might be to see it as her fault and hers alone. This was her choice, not anyone else's. You happened to end up with someone awful. You have my sympathy. There are a lot of people like that. There are awful women and awful men.
>I shot a man while his hands were on her body
I hope that's something you take pride in. You defended someone you care(d) about, and killed a monster. Every other living person is SAFER because of what you did.
>Isn't violence supposed to turn women on?
This is a case-by-case thing. It is pretty common. If it were anyone else it probably WOULD have worked, weirdly.
Overall I'd say the best thing you could do is try and move on. This wasn't your fault. You were dealt every card that would make you this way, spiteful and angry. It's your choice here, depending on if you see "not hating women anymore" to be something you can rise to. There's no up or down here. It's a viewpoint. You can change it if you want. You might have to motivate yourself to do that. If you wanna, try turning your anger around a little, shift the blame. It's probably not healthy but it might work. Maybe you'd think that this is a degenerate Muslim viewpoint to view women in such a way and a strong, Christian man shouldn't fall so low. Or maybe you can think that perhaps they were right all along. Nobody will force you. You have a choice, it's yours to make. Have fun.
>The woman I was dating turned out to be a treasonous unfixable degenerate piece of shit
Unfortunately that's something you'll hear nearly every day. One of my friends has had three girlfriends and all of them cheated on him. There's no moral, nothing you can take away. Some stories don't have a happy ending. Some are just depressing. If it turns you away from dating and love forever, so be it. That's your choice. A point might be to see it as her fault and hers alone. This was her choice, not anyone else's. You happened to end up with someone awful. You have my sympathy. There are a lot of people like that. There are awful women and awful men.
>I shot a man while his hands were on her body
I hope that's something you take pride in. You defended someone you care(d) about, and killed a monster. Every other living person is SAFER because of what you did.
>Isn't violence supposed to turn women on?
This is a case-by-case thing. It is pretty common. If it were anyone else it probably WOULD have worked, weirdly.
Overall I'd say the best thing you could do is try and move on. This wasn't your fault. You were dealt every card that would make you this way, spiteful and angry. It's your choice here, depending on if you see "not hating women anymore" to be something you can rise to. There's no up or down here. It's a viewpoint. You can change it if you want. You might have to motivate yourself to do that. If you wanna, try turning your anger around a little, shift the blame. It's probably not healthy but it might work. Maybe you'd think that this is a degenerate Muslim viewpoint to view women in such a way and a strong, Christian man shouldn't fall so low. Or maybe you can think that perhaps they were right all along. Nobody will force you. You have a choice, it's yours to make. Have fun.
Violence turns women on because their soul thinks "oh maybe he will be strong enough to lead me away from my self destructive self"
As soon as the man doesn't lead hard and defers to her on matters of authority all desire drives up instantly and she starts looking for another man to lead her.
FYI women don't understand this as it is spiritual they just act it out physically.
As soon as the man doesn't lead hard and defers to her on matters of authority all desire drives up instantly and she starts looking for another man to lead her.
FYI women don't understand this as it is spiritual they just act it out physically.
Real men make women good by putting them in their place physically. Once men could no longer beat their wives society was broken. Feminists made wife beating about unreasonable drunk men. It was actually men keeping their wives sinful desires in check.
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