Have you noticed how the most common response white people (Especially the ones unaware of racial matters but not only them) have online against blacks is either "yeah you go to prison a lot" or "yeah you don't take care of your children". Think about where it comes from :
white people see prison and not taking care of one's children as particularly insulting (think about the term "bastard") because that's how we evolved. To have these tight knit high trust communities. if a man doesn't take care of his children in a traditional white society potentially the whole community is at risk, same with a convict. On the other hand, blacks obviously evolved for high time preference reproductive strategies (i.e have as many partners as possible to ensure as many children as possible). Of course the blacks don't care and laugh these insults off, it's not in their nature to care. Same with prison. for them that's a natural road block that just happens.
Think about how different we really are as groups if we can't even find the same things insulting