Don't be the faggot complaining about how your looks are the reason you can't get a girlfriend. Bitching and whining is the most counterproductive and effeminate self-victimizing shit you can do. Incels disgust me. Yes, it's true, looks matter. But only for the initial attraction. Unless your only goal is to fuck, it does not help you long term if you are attractive but a borderline autist socially, because they will get weirded out and leave. I am speaking from the other side of the fence here, but I have been pretty since high school. However, I was not able to keep a woman around me for more than a few months because I was socially retarded anyways. It's a skill to learn and to hone.
And I know it's cliche, but it's true. There are ugly people in relationships. When I was younger I used to be very jealous of people who were much less attractive, objectively, than I was, because they were actually able to *keep* a relationship going. I got stuck in the endless cycle of pretty woman approaches me -> date for a few days-> sex-> incompatible personalities-> never speak again. But there is a caveat. If you are unattractive, women will need another reason to be attracted to you in the first place. Make yourself stand out, make yourself look higher status than you actually are (half of dating is lying for both parties), be someone pleasant to be around in general. The gym helps, improving your body improves your face, and women like good bodies (everyone who says otherwise is lying. Especially if they are a woman).
Learn useful and productive skills. Women like men who aren't useless as much as they like pretty faces. You should be doing this as a man anyways, but if your excuse is to impress women, you're still learning the skill so it doesn't really matter.
Finally, figure out which type of woman is attracted to your phenotype. Nobody really talks about this, but different women who fall into different categories are attracted to different types of men. I have always been more attractive to alternative/scene/emo whatever women because I look more like Eric Roberts or Björn Andresen than Henry Cavil or Jason Statham. Varsity girls, traditional women, and women who play sports are more likely to be attractive to more fully masculine faces. Where do you stand? Figure it out, and talk to women who are more likely to find you attractive accordingly. And, furthermore, every subcategory has its whores and its good women, and everything in between. Don't fall into the trap of automatically thinking that a woman with dutch braids and a summer dress is a God fearing saintly woman. Likewise, don't assume that every girl who dresses "alt" is a whore. The alt girl could be the God-fearing woman and the "tradwife" could be the whore, I have seen this play out a few times in my life. Know who they are first. I've met alt-girls who sounded like Adolf Hitler when they talked about political issues and traditional looking girls who were incredibly liberal and retarded. Actually, "alts" being sluts is a very new viewpoint that is mostly caused by posers on tiktok, or posers irl. I guess at some point, women realized that Avril Lavigne is actually pretty fucking hot and copied that look. IDK why this started exactly though. When I was school-aged, and at every point in the past pretty much, they had the exact opposite perception.
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And I know it's cliche, but it's true. There are ugly people in relationships. When I was younger I used to be very jealous of people who were much less attractive, objectively, than I was, because they were actually able to *keep* a relationship going. I got stuck in the endless cycle of pretty woman approaches me -> date for a few days-> sex-> incompatible personalities-> never speak again. But there is a caveat. If you are unattractive, women will need another reason to be attracted to you in the first place. Make yourself stand out, make yourself look higher status than you actually are (half of dating is lying for both parties), be someone pleasant to be around in general. The gym helps, improving your body improves your face, and women like good bodies (everyone who says otherwise is lying. Especially if they are a woman).
Learn useful and productive skills. Women like men who aren't useless as much as they like pretty faces. You should be doing this as a man anyways, but if your excuse is to impress women, you're still learning the skill so it doesn't really matter.
Finally, figure out which type of woman is attracted to your phenotype. Nobody really talks about this, but different women who fall into different categories are attracted to different types of men. I have always been more attractive to alternative/scene/emo whatever women because I look more like Eric Roberts or Björn Andresen than Henry Cavil or Jason Statham. Varsity girls, traditional women, and women who play sports are more likely to be attractive to more fully masculine faces. Where do you stand? Figure it out, and talk to women who are more likely to find you attractive accordingly. And, furthermore, every subcategory has its whores and its good women, and everything in between. Don't fall into the trap of automatically thinking that a woman with dutch braids and a summer dress is a God fearing saintly woman. Likewise, don't assume that every girl who dresses "alt" is a whore. The alt girl could be the God-fearing woman and the "tradwife" could be the whore, I have seen this play out a few times in my life. Know who they are first. I've met alt-girls who sounded like Adolf Hitler when they talked about political issues and traditional looking girls who were incredibly liberal and retarded. Actually, "alts" being sluts is a very new viewpoint that is mostly caused by posers on tiktok, or posers irl. I guess at some point, women realized that Avril Lavigne is actually pretty fucking hot and copied that look. IDK why this started exactly though. When I was school-aged, and at every point in the past pretty much, they had the exact opposite perception.
Furthermore, I consider that Israel must be destroyed
is to just find someone who's like you (values, interests, identity);
there's tons of people not like you who may not like you at all but they don't matter because you only need to find one person to marry from a small pool of interested like-minded people (who have similar values, interests, identity)
This was helpful to learn as it explains why:
-99% of people may not like you but that doesn't matter
-a bunch of people may like you but they aren't a match (don't have same values, interests, identity) and you don't have to feel bad about it
The few relationships I've experienced have been people who I just "get" and they just "get" me; 99% of people there's just a mutual sense that we don't "get" each other and I feel like I really had to learn the hard way that that's "just the way it is" ("radical acceptance")
edit: So it's like a game of "Guess Who?", where you make guesses and eliminate who it is not in the game (and who is not the right person for you). You can eliminate lots of people who have all kinds of "red flags" of mutual incompatibility. You can also be open to being with people who deviate somewhat from "who you are" although I'm not sure how much that can work, there are probably limits you'll have to test and see for yourself.
(besides the aforementioned, you can try your best to be your best, that goes without saying and lots of people have already said much on this)
Let me guess.. It's not you, it's women and society's fault you are an unmanly piece of shit? You've done everything right in life! It's everyone's fault, but yours, that no one likes you and no woman will give you the time of day. Seems plausible and legit. Just like the kikes that have been kicked out of 109 nations and it was never their own fault.
Do yourself and us the favor and end your pathetic existence already. Because we've all had enough of your incessant pointless whining, you worthless fucking bitch.