Most media is depressing and jewish and even when it isn't it fails to interest, socialization is stressful and intimidating, work is monotonous and unfulfilling, I can't get a woman despite my standards basically only relating to her race and fertility, and I don't see anything else to do. You could tell me to get away from the internet for a while but then I'm left with nothing but food.
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14 days ago1 point(+0/-0/+1Score on mirror)1 child
> of doing thnigs that I have no genuine interest in
You don't have interests. That is kind of the problem, isn't it?
14 days ago-2 points(+0/-0/-2Score on mirror)1 child
I thought that much was apparent. I think a big part of it is the lack of ability to discuss things with anyone. Believe it or not this site is my main source of socialization.
14 days ago1 point(+0/-0/+1Score on mirror)1 child
Alright, but let's focus on hobbies then. Socialization is a different topic.
> Forcing myself to just go through the motions of doing thnigs that I have no genuine interest in
Then figure out what you have genuine interest in.
I go hiking, I code, I draw, I swim, I drive, I play video games, I argue with strangers on the internet, I watch and listen to videos for entertainment and learning new things. I often think and simulate scenarios and speeches in my mind. In the past I also read books.
This is a shallow summary, hiding a lot of details. So how comes you are not interested in anything? If eating is really all you have going - then learn to cook. I personally like to cook things that have no name and no recipes - the result of creativity with a limited ability. I imagine the ingredients, I plan the recipe, and then I just do it. You can do the same, experiment around or try to go for existing recipes.
But I don't believe you have actually *tried* things. It is a simple matter to figure out the truth - tell me the things you have tried and why they bored you.
14 days ago-2 points(+0/-0/-2Score on mirror)1 child
>Then figure out what you have genuine interest in. Socialization is a different topic.
Not much while I'm so alone. Socialization is core to solving the problem of why I'm unable to be interested in anything.
>If eating is really all you have going - then learn to cook. I personally like to cook things that have no name and no recipes - the result of creativity with a limited ability. I imagine the ingredients, I plan the recipe, and then I just do it. You can do the same, experiment around or try to go for existing recipes.
I do cook, but I don't enjoy the process of cooking, only the result and I still need more in my life than just food.
>But I don't believe you have actually tried things. It is a simple matter to figure out the truth - tell me the things you have tried and why they bored you.
I struggle to even find opportunities to do anything. I mostly just game, browse this site and watch youtube on my second monitor as background noise. I've tried fishing but it's a lot of waiting around without much happening, I've tried tabletop gaming but it just didn't seem like my thing, and I've spent a lot of time trying to find out what things I could do only to be mocked, belittled and abused under false claims that I'm somehow unwilling to try.
14 days ago1 point(+0/-0/+1Score on mirror)2 children
Alright. So you haven't actually tried much then. Fishing sucks unless you are about to become a senior. Tabletop gaming sounds fine, but the point isn't just the game, it's the social interactions.
> only to be mocked, belittled and abused under false claims that I'm somehow unwilling to try.
And what are the things you tried?
So how about drawing, hiking, swimming, going to fitness, photography? Or if it should be on a PC, do drawing there, image editing, create music (I remember I used LMMS), create a game, do 3D modelling, or learn to code.
Recently I've drawn 169 icons for my game, and next I'll create 18 models for weapons. And I basically start at zero with Blender, so it's again a rough start.
I mean it sounds like you lack ambition or the persistence to pull through. I hated hiking until I started to like it, and then I explored the shit out of the last place I lived in once I moved there. Every weekend I went out, and in basically every direction there was something to explore.
If you have friends with whom you can do things, it's much better to do something with them. Things that would be ordinarily boring can become fun.
You're being tremendously patient, but need to realize OP is just here to whine. I've seen him here on multiple accounts and he always follows this same pattern. No matter what advice you give, he'll come back with excuses why it won't work and woe is him.
I don't know if he's fishing for sympathy and attention or is just a demoralization shill.
14 days ago-2 points(+0/-0/-2Score on mirror)1 child
>Alright. So you haven't actually tried much then. Fishing sucks unless you are about to become a senior. Tabletop gaming sounds fine, but the point isn't just the game, it's the social interactions.
Yes, and even after a couple months I still felt like I was just an outsider in the group.
>So how about drawing, hiking, swimming, going to fitness, photography? Or if it should be on a PC, do drawing there, image editing, create music (I remember I used LMMS), create a game, do 3D modelling, or learn to code.
I have no drive to create because I know nothing I make would be satisfactory to my standards. Beyond that there's nothing that I really *want* to make. I feel like everything has already been done already and there's nothing left worth doing unless it's at the highest level with at minimum tens of millions of dollars in budget. Creation is not for the common man, at least not anymore.
>I mean it sounds like you lack ambition or the persistence to pull through. I hated hiking until I started to like it, and then I explored the shit out of the last place I lived in once I moved there. Every weekend I went out, and in basically every direction there was something to explore.
See to me that just sounds like it would be putting myself at risk for no discernable gain, I'd be safer staying at home and I doubt there's much to see around me anyway.
>If you have friends with whom you can do things, it's much better to do something with them. Things that would be ordinarily boring can become fun.
You don't have interests. That is kind of the problem, isn't it?
> Forcing myself to just go through the motions of doing thnigs that I have no genuine interest in
Then figure out what you have genuine interest in.
I go hiking, I code, I draw, I swim, I drive, I play video games, I argue with strangers on the internet, I watch and listen to videos for entertainment and learning new things. I often think and simulate scenarios and speeches in my mind. In the past I also read books.
This is a shallow summary, hiding a lot of details. So how comes you are not interested in anything? If eating is really all you have going - then learn to cook. I personally like to cook things that have no name and no recipes - the result of creativity with a limited ability. I imagine the ingredients, I plan the recipe, and then I just do it. You can do the same, experiment around or try to go for existing recipes.
But I don't believe you have actually *tried* things. It is a simple matter to figure out the truth - tell me the things you have tried and why they bored you.
Not much while I'm so alone. Socialization is core to solving the problem of why I'm unable to be interested in anything.
>If eating is really all you have going - then learn to cook. I personally like to cook things that have no name and no recipes - the result of creativity with a limited ability. I imagine the ingredients, I plan the recipe, and then I just do it. You can do the same, experiment around or try to go for existing recipes.
I do cook, but I don't enjoy the process of cooking, only the result and I still need more in my life than just food.
>But I don't believe you have actually tried things. It is a simple matter to figure out the truth - tell me the things you have tried and why they bored you.
I struggle to even find opportunities to do anything. I mostly just game, browse this site and watch youtube on my second monitor as background noise. I've tried fishing but it's a lot of waiting around without much happening, I've tried tabletop gaming but it just didn't seem like my thing, and I've spent a lot of time trying to find out what things I could do only to be mocked, belittled and abused under false claims that I'm somehow unwilling to try.
> only to be mocked, belittled and abused under false claims that I'm somehow unwilling to try.
And what are the things you tried?
So how about drawing, hiking, swimming, going to fitness, photography? Or if it should be on a PC, do drawing there, image editing, create music (I remember I used LMMS), create a game, do 3D modelling, or learn to code.
Recently I've drawn 169 icons for my game, and next I'll create 18 models for weapons. And I basically start at zero with Blender, so it's again a rough start.
I mean it sounds like you lack ambition or the persistence to pull through. I hated hiking until I started to like it, and then I explored the shit out of the last place I lived in once I moved there. Every weekend I went out, and in basically every direction there was something to explore.
If you have friends with whom you can do things, it's much better to do something with them. Things that would be ordinarily boring can become fun.
I don't know if he's fishing for sympathy and attention or is just a demoralization shill.
Yes, and even after a couple months I still felt like I was just an outsider in the group.
>So how about drawing, hiking, swimming, going to fitness, photography? Or if it should be on a PC, do drawing there, image editing, create music (I remember I used LMMS), create a game, do 3D modelling, or learn to code.
I have no drive to create because I know nothing I make would be satisfactory to my standards. Beyond that there's nothing that I really *want* to make. I feel like everything has already been done already and there's nothing left worth doing unless it's at the highest level with at minimum tens of millions of dollars in budget. Creation is not for the common man, at least not anymore.
>I mean it sounds like you lack ambition or the persistence to pull through. I hated hiking until I started to like it, and then I explored the shit out of the last place I lived in once I moved there. Every weekend I went out, and in basically every direction there was something to explore.
See to me that just sounds like it would be putting myself at risk for no discernable gain, I'd be safer staying at home and I doubt there's much to see around me anyway.
>If you have friends with whom you can do things, it's much better to do something with them. Things that would be ordinarily boring can become fun.
So I have heard.