Most media is depressing and jewish and even when it isn't it fails to interest, socialization is stressful and intimidating, work is monotonous and unfulfilling, I can't get a woman despite my standards basically only relating to her race and fertility, and I don't see anything else to do. You could tell me to get away from the internet for a while but then I'm left with nothing but food.
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14 days ago-1 points(+0/-0/-1Score on mirror)1 child
pretty much just browsing here and complaining about not having a woman.
14 days ago3 points(+0/-0/+3Score on mirror)1 child
Then develop interests. Try things out. Try reading, do hiking, go bodybuilding, go to church, try playing a music instrument, try doing a new job, go do survival stuff in the woods, build something, learn to code, politically organize, or just organize people for something.
If you do neither of these or something else, it's a you-problem. And nothing and nobody except you yourself can help you.
14 days ago-2 points(+0/-0/-2Score on mirror)1 child
Forcing myself to just go through the motions of doing thnigs that I have no genuine interest in wouldn't solve anything, I've done it before and it doesn't fix anything, it's just is a source of stress and obligation which is the opposite of what I'm looking for. Trying to get enjoyment out of life shouldn't feel like an unpaid job.
14 days ago-2 points(+0/-0/-2Score on mirror)1 child
I thought that much was apparent. I think a big part of it is the lack of ability to discuss things with anyone. Believe it or not this site is my main source of socialization.
14 days ago1 point(+0/-0/+1Score on mirror)1 child
Alright, but let's focus on hobbies then. Socialization is a different topic.
> Forcing myself to just go through the motions of doing thnigs that I have no genuine interest in
Then figure out what you have genuine interest in.
I go hiking, I code, I draw, I swim, I drive, I play video games, I argue with strangers on the internet, I watch and listen to videos for entertainment and learning new things. I often think and simulate scenarios and speeches in my mind. In the past I also read books.
This is a shallow summary, hiding a lot of details. So how comes you are not interested in anything? If eating is really all you have going - then learn to cook. I personally like to cook things that have no name and no recipes - the result of creativity with a limited ability. I imagine the ingredients, I plan the recipe, and then I just do it. You can do the same, experiment around or try to go for existing recipes.
But I don't believe you have actually *tried* things. It is a simple matter to figure out the truth - tell me the things you have tried and why they bored you.
If you do neither of these or something else, it's a you-problem. And nothing and nobody except you yourself can help you.
You don't have interests. That is kind of the problem, isn't it?
> Forcing myself to just go through the motions of doing thnigs that I have no genuine interest in
Then figure out what you have genuine interest in.
I go hiking, I code, I draw, I swim, I drive, I play video games, I argue with strangers on the internet, I watch and listen to videos for entertainment and learning new things. I often think and simulate scenarios and speeches in my mind. In the past I also read books.
This is a shallow summary, hiding a lot of details. So how comes you are not interested in anything? If eating is really all you have going - then learn to cook. I personally like to cook things that have no name and no recipes - the result of creativity with a limited ability. I imagine the ingredients, I plan the recipe, and then I just do it. You can do the same, experiment around or try to go for existing recipes.
But I don't believe you have actually *tried* things. It is a simple matter to figure out the truth - tell me the things you have tried and why they bored you.