This is exactly why I don't cold approach
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Who would accept the advances of a shitskin? gross.
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Okay this is a literal nigger doing the cold approaching though. And the approach itself is weak.
While you *can* do it bluntly like this, it's better to have at least a modicum of setup to the ask. As an example, the one time I ever cold approached a girl (on impulse at a department store, several months ago,) I did so like this:
She was deeply lingering in the book aisle, scanning the shelves. Introverted energy, looked lost in her own head. I walked up, motioned to the books, and said, "Pardon me, do you like *mysteries,* by chance?"
She looked slightly startled. "Oh, um, kind of, I guess."
"I see. I just thought you looked kind of mysterious yourself, browsing alone in the Walmart book section."
Cheesy as fuck, but delivered with complete confidence. Immediate blushy giggle, big grin.
A little bit of back and forth about what she was reading, mentioning the fact that I'm a writer, blah blah. Only at *that* point do I drop the, "Well listen, I thought you were cute, and I'd be really interested to get to know you a bit better if you'd like to give me your number."
She was flattered, but ultimately declined. However, it was a very pleasant, "yes-shaped" no. She'd freely offered me her name and a handshake just prior, and I walked away in higher spirits than before I approached. Very unlike the venom this nigger was met with.
Obviously, being a handsome White man is a *necessary* odds multiplier for a cold approach to ever work, but it also makes a world of difference to put a little bit of humor and wit into it. Women love to laugh. And no matter what you say, you *must* avoid carrying yourself with the cagey, limp-wrist energy of the shitskin in this video.
But—cold approaching is a low-odds game no matter how you play it. The vast majority of women—even those who are charmed by you—will still reject you for a variety of reasons. Usually existing circumstances (as was claimed in my case,) sometimes just pure caution surrounding the notion of giving out their number to a stranger. It requires a lot of luck.
While you *can* do it bluntly like this, it's better to have at least a modicum of setup to the ask. As an example, the one time I ever cold approached a girl (on impulse at a department store, several months ago,) I did so like this:
She was deeply lingering in the book aisle, scanning the shelves. Introverted energy, looked lost in her own head. I walked up, motioned to the books, and said, "Pardon me, do you like *mysteries,* by chance?"
She looked slightly startled. "Oh, um, kind of, I guess."
"I see. I just thought you looked kind of mysterious yourself, browsing alone in the Walmart book section."
Cheesy as fuck, but delivered with complete confidence. Immediate blushy giggle, big grin.
A little bit of back and forth about what she was reading, mentioning the fact that I'm a writer, blah blah. Only at *that* point do I drop the, "Well listen, I thought you were cute, and I'd be really interested to get to know you a bit better if you'd like to give me your number."
She was flattered, but ultimately declined. However, it was a very pleasant, "yes-shaped" no. She'd freely offered me her name and a handshake just prior, and I walked away in higher spirits than before I approached. Very unlike the venom this nigger was met with.
Obviously, being a handsome White man is a *necessary* odds multiplier for a cold approach to ever work, but it also makes a world of difference to put a little bit of humor and wit into it. Women love to laugh. And no matter what you say, you *must* avoid carrying yourself with the cagey, limp-wrist energy of the shitskin in this video.
But—cold approaching is a low-odds game no matter how you play it. The vast majority of women—even those who are charmed by you—will still reject you for a variety of reasons. Usually existing circumstances (as was claimed in my case,) sometimes just pure caution surrounding the notion of giving out their number to a stranger. It requires a lot of luck.
I am immediately suspicious of anyone that approaches me with a camera, regardless of what they are saying.
It doesn't go like that at all and they prob even saw him holding the phone/camera and him being brown.
Like Breadpilled said, just say something around you to her or actually give her a real compliment. Example: I saw a girl with super white shoes so I told her then talked about what she was shopping for and so on then go for number which she gave me or ask "Do you have a man in your life?"
I use to approach women all the time and it is very easy after approaching more than 10 you get in the groove.
If you are not confident then approach employees. If still not confident then read "The Flinch" by Julien Smith. it is free online and helps you understand why you are not confident and what you can do to defeat the flinch.
Approaching a girl is more about you learning about them and figuring out is she right for you.
Why rush for the # when you can learn about her right there?
Like Breadpilled said, just say something around you to her or actually give her a real compliment. Example: I saw a girl with super white shoes so I told her then talked about what she was shopping for and so on then go for number which she gave me or ask "Do you have a man in your life?"
I use to approach women all the time and it is very easy after approaching more than 10 you get in the groove.
If you are not confident then approach employees. If still not confident then read "The Flinch" by Julien Smith. it is free online and helps you understand why you are not confident and what you can do to defeat the flinch.
Approaching a girl is more about you learning about them and figuring out is she right for you.
Why rush for the # when you can learn about her right there?
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if you're a shitskin, and you hit on White women you're going to get rejected
that being said, the so called "cold approuch" only works if you're a 10/10 gigachad