Agreed, but 10 years ago people like this would've been smiling and complimenting how much they love their local negroes and how it's so boring to have nothing but white people around. We've made progress.
What "abuse"? Don't be ridiculous. Do you know what actual abuse would look like?
"Get the fuck out of my shop, nigger."
"We don't sell to niggers."
Or straight beating them, burning down their shops, their homes, vandalizing them, killing them, in any societal environment degrade them, threaten them, run usury schemes on them, harass them otherwise.
This? A woman calling one a nigger who ***already behaved like a nigger*** is NOTHING. Anybody can withstand this near-nothing "abuse."