i forgot what actually changed fundamentally at what precise point (there were some gradual lightbulb moments but no defining moments) that made normie shit seem irrational and so on, thus making it hard to try to slowly change people's minds through a gradual introduction, simply because i dont know how to be subtle about it, i literally cant get this working but i wish i did. i see people every day with childish bullshit takes that seem like mental cuckoldry for other races under the false idol of equality, but i have no clue how to break this without seeming like a fucking idiot. i know the truth, but i dont know how to break it to people who need to be freed from these mental brainwashings, since i cannot remember the process of gradually changing the mentality in a way that doesnt scare people off
essentially, you need to learn about human nature. people think about themselves, their problems, their life, their needs and wants. people think about you so infrequently they might have trouble recalling your name.
so learn to listen. learn to be interested in other people and their lives. and I don't mean faking interest, I mean learn how to be actually interested. daydream a bit about trying to live their life. begin to phrase the things you have learned in a way that directly relates to their life, their needs, the things the dread.
the easiest way to do this and prove you've been listening is to ask questions directly related to the topics they talk about. include a tiny sliver of the topics you might want to discuss too. if they bite, ask more leading questions that also relate directly to their wants/desires/fears/values. it takes practice.
the tactics for women are quite different and that's another story. it's like convincing a child, and it relies on appeals to emotional arguments, fear & dread.