https://nypost.com/2025/05/21/us-news/jd-vance-doesnt-want-lovelorn-americans-to-use-destructive-dating-apps/
I fully agree.
I don't like Trump or Vance, but they are spot on sometimes.
Tinder is a problem. It's time someone said it and brought attention to this.
I think more men should use tinder for what it's good for, chadfishing and figuring out the weight that looks hold in dating. To try to talk to women from the pov of an attractive guy and maybe figure out that it's not about "impressing her", having "game" or whatever stupid shit they're saying these days.
And while they're at it, have some fun, prank them a little, and drive the % of women on tinder even lower.
In fact I think these days with AI we could be easily verified as the chadfish, but I haven't tried it, I haven't chadfished in a while.
I can't force women to be something they don't want to be. I've met tons of women with the potential to be good wives for me but none of them wanted that role. The women all wanted to be something else.
The problem isn't a lack of quality in the men but a lack of quality in the women. Society allows women to be low quality and still succeed so that's what most women do. The truth of the matter is although, I'm not average as you say, the kinds of women that I'd be able to place in the position of suitable wife for me are not quality women which is why they'd accept the job. The best looking women that are highly sought after by men have no need for a relationship because they can get everything they want staying single. I have 0 desire for an ugly wife just to have kids with given the way child support and divorce laws are. I would have a wife and a mistress if society allowed for it. The way it is now, there's really not a lot of incentive for guys like me or the women I like to be bothered getting married and starting a family. Women just don't want to do it and the ones that do are rarely worth it.
I make $150k/yr and I live on a lake where it's 85-110 all summer. There's another lake 10 minutes down the road from my place. This city triples in population in the summer, it's such a desirable location. I'd never move. If a hot Slavic girl wants to come here, enjoy what I have and service my cock then by all means, I'll pay for her to come here but I tried that avenue years ago. I couldn't find any hot enough for me.
I find Slavic girls too transactional anyhow. They try to minimize sex as much as possible while maximizing what the men spend on them. It's a game to them and it's game I absolutely despise. They're way too cold for me, generally and I'm German so for people to be too cold for me means they're way too fucking cold. I just think most guys can't see how calculating and cold Slavic women are but it's not my thing.