Yeah, people misunderstand that all of the calls to "love your enemy" and be "meek" are essentially condemnations of proportionate retaliation, IE seeking personal vengeance *without respect to justice*. "Turn the other cheek" in no way implies withholding justice, rather its a call to attempt de-escalation *in relation to personal slights*. You cannot turn the other cheek when someone else is being wronged, because *it isnt your cheek to turn*.