Sufficient self controlled physical and mental domination of a female means that she submits and things actually go quite well. It's when you give them an equal seat at any proverbial table that things go to shit quickly.
I don't think many of the people here struggle with this. "Faggot" should be reserved for queers, defilers of nature, not men whose attention you want, so you resort to a clickbait title. Stop calling us and each other faggots. Probably no one here is a sodomite.
Nah, effeminacy is more than just being a sodomite, its the refusal to face suffering and do what is necessary despite suffering. Sadly most men today are effeminate, so calling each other faggots is pretty honest.