I have always had problems getting girls. Idk what it is about me but they just dont like anything about who I am. My first impression usually has them running away. If I get through that then they run away after talking to me for 5 minutes. It has been like this since I got out of HS.
I'm on the come up now. I'm starting to make decent money and about to take the gym to the next level.
I fear that I am going to hate whatever woman meets me at the finish line. How can I respect or love somebody who I know would've hated me before success? What other options do I have celibacy?? Nah. Any of you niggers got some good material I can use to better my game without making me a cuck?
The unfortunate truth is that most women are trash nowadays. You are going to have to put in a LOT of work to get a decent woman that isn’t fat.
The best advice I can give is to get in good shape, slim down until you have abs, and work on holding normie conversations about their family, job, house, hobbies, etc. You can also try joining a local club, such as a running club, to try and meet a nice girl. There’s also church. Personally, I don’t think either of these methods are very reliable, but it’s something.
Dating apps are your best method of finding girls your age, but they’re dating apps, so yeah. Hinge is one of the better dating apps, so I’d recommend that over trash like Tinder or Bumble. On the bright side, once you get in good shape and assuming you aren’t ugly, you’ll automatically be better than 95% of the dorks on dating apps.