I have always had problems getting girls. Idk what it is about me but they just dont like anything about who I am. My first impression usually has them running away. If I get through that then they run away after talking to me for 5 minutes. It has been like this since I got out of HS.
I'm on the come up now. I'm starting to make decent money and about to take the gym to the next level.
I fear that I am going to hate whatever woman meets me at the finish line. How can I respect or love somebody who I know would've hated me before success? What other options do I have celibacy?? Nah. Any of you niggers got some good material I can use to better my game without making me a cuck?
women want someone physically attractive, more successful, and with higher social status than them (pretty much in that order). so do that, date down below your social class, looks, and wealth. hope better options don't open up for her or ~80% of women leave you in that situation. i.e. she becomes successful or you lose job, get sick or disabled.
beyond that: don't be a sperg. be "outcome independent" and confident in your abilities. don't allow disparaging or passive-aggressive comments in your direction from her or anyone else. keep your emotions under control but politely call people out on that. don't let people tell you what to do unless you're at work and don't let people tell you what to think. be your own man. this all takes practice so get to social events and talk with people. read a book or two. do some thinking on your own. have a few interesting things to talk about. again, don't be a sperg.
date for marriage. it's alright to ask them what they want out of life on your first date. and do not for the love of God spend a single cent on the first date. if you are you're doing this whole game wrong and you should feel bad.
Do you know where you are?