Same here, I took about five years off too. It's just super demoralizing how girls will tell you they love you and then months or years later break up with you. Like that word doesn't mean much anymore it seems.
When I was younger I thought when you start telling each other "I love you" then it's a wrap, but it's not lol. It's more just something couples start saying to each other after a few months.
Well I can tell you 100% you can definitely change that. Idk you personally but if you're thinking appearance is the problem, it's not. You just gotta 1) be confident and 2) not let them know you need them/want them badly.
Act almost indifferent at first, and never ever act needy.
You may have heard that before and think it's just generic advice, but it's really really true. I have a friend who is a legit 300-400 pounds (and it ain't muscle) and he's great with women lol (I'm not assuming anything about your appearance, I'm just saying it really seems to be all about confidence, because that's what he has).
When I was younger I thought when you start telling each other "I love you" then it's a wrap, but it's not lol. It's more just something couples start saying to each other after a few months.
Act almost indifferent at first, and never ever act needy.
You may have heard that before and think it's just generic advice, but it's really really true. I have a friend who is a legit 300-400 pounds (and it ain't muscle) and he's great with women lol (I'm not assuming anything about your appearance, I'm just saying it really seems to be all about confidence, because that's what he has).