That sounds entirely like a "you" problem. Community Colleges all around this country have career tracks that take a few months to two years at most. There's all kinds of unfilled jobs in America that women don't want, meaning they're male-dominated fields. Meaning your "for a man" excuses don't apply.
Figure it out. "Where there's a will, there's a way."
Figure it out. "Where there's a will, there's a way."