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UnapologeticGarbage on scored.co
1 year ago2 points(+0/-0/+2Score on mirror)1 child
Yup. Late bloomers, here. Virgin till I was 19. I spent a lot of time learning psychology and getting in shape, finding the perfect haircut, finding the right style. Had a *lot* of fun once I figured it out and got married. That didn't work out, so I'm on the market again. It's all practice and skill. Talking to women is a skill, and there's a lot of books (not pick-up artist type shit, but psychology) that will greatly help you out here. Women are biologically hardwired to want certain archetypes of men, and if you can take your personality and fit it in to one (or more) of those archetypes (the ones they actually find attractive), you almost have to *try* to get women to not like you.
I've personally seen 40+ year old men pull bombshell 20-25 year old women using nothing but good old fashioned charm. And some of these dudes are a 4/10 in the looks dept. Women are extremely shallow at first, but having a Chad attitude alone will overcome all of that. All being good looking does is make it easy to build rapport and have a default good first impression, but you can still fuck it up or they'll just use you as a fuckboy. Which sounds fun, until it isn't.
I've personally seen 40+ year old men pull bombshell 20-25 year old women using nothing but good old fashioned charm. And some of these dudes are a 4/10 in the looks dept. Women are extremely shallow at first, but having a Chad attitude alone will overcome all of that. All being good looking does is make it easy to build rapport and have a default good first impression, but you can still fuck it up or they'll just use you as a fuckboy. Which sounds fun, until it isn't.