1 year ago10 points(+0/-0/+10Score on mirror)1 child
True. I had a girlfriend that never listened to me when I said I wanted to leave some place. I told her it was time to go home while at the mall and she walked into another store. About 20 mins later she calls me asking where I was. I told her I was at the house and she started crying. "Are you going to pick me up? How am I getting home?" I was actually at the sports bar across the street, but from then on she knew not to play games when I said I was ready to leave.
All you have to do is NOT play her game. If she really doesn't respect you, she'll dump you; and good riddance at that.
But if she does, she'll cut the crap real quick and get on your program. It's not complicated, but working up the nerve is what keeps guys from setting their boundaries. They fear "losing" her over being "mean," but she'll actually pick up on the fear and exploit it. It's a strange irony, but being "too nice" is an easy way to lose a chick. Women are like dogs. Setting boundaries isn't mean; they actually NEED them!
> "We bred eight originally, but when she came in she took over the pride and killed all but two of the others. That one... when she looks at you, you can see she's working things out. They were testing the fences for weaknesses, systematically." — Muldoon, *Jurassic Park*
1 year ago9 points(+0/-0/+9Score on mirror)2 children
You speak as if there aren't millions of women who remain in "abusive" relationships. Laws can't change the fact that many women are attracted to men who put them in their place.
1 year ago16 points(+0/-0/+16Score on mirror)2 children
Years ago i was friends with this guy from my dorm floor. After graduating we moved to the same city and i was his best man when he married the girl he had been dating since high school. He worked for child and youth services. He met a niggerfaggot there and left his wife.
My favorite is I was stilĺ friends with him until the BLM bullshit. He went full sjw. And since I was pointing out how it was all based on completely false premises and how that criminigger floyd killed himself bu swallowing all his drugs and was saying I CANT BREEF while he was still sitting in the drivers seat of his own car that I must be a racist. I met him weeks before I started dating the mulatto I nearly married and lived with for 4 yeats after dating for 1. And I had dates with at least nonWhite (another mulatto and a lightskin) afterward while we were still in contact. Wanting to belong to the popular group is a hell of a drug. He was always a pop media consoooomer. Even watched Jersey Shore and listened to whatever earslop was pushed on radio.
All you have to do is NOT play her game. If she really doesn't respect you, she'll dump you; and good riddance at that.
But if she does, she'll cut the crap real quick and get on your program. It's not complicated, but working up the nerve is what keeps guys from setting their boundaries. They fear "losing" her over being "mean," but she'll actually pick up on the fear and exploit it. It's a strange irony, but being "too nice" is an easy way to lose a chick. Women are like dogs. Setting boundaries isn't mean; they actually NEED them!