Genuinely, please pray. If it's only 3 seconds, please pray. You have never failed me. Every time I have ever come here for prayer, I and my family have been empowered beyond my own belief. It has humbled me, and it has ironically shown me the weakness of my prior faith. This time I ask that you pray not for the preservation of a failing life, but for the sake of my creation of new life. I plan to marry this woman, and I don't plan to let anything stop me.
Have you ever wanted something so much that you would do everything, absolutely anything to ensure that you get it? This is that for me. I've even asked a former Christian, now apostate, that if it's the last prayer to Jesus he ever makes, let it be for me to marry this lovely woman.
I have to go now, I'm smitten too much. Hail Christ and may He save our race.
You turn too desperate. If you show desperation to her, she will take it as weakness, or an opportunity to exploit. That is unless it is reciprocal - but if you are simping for her, be ready to suffer for it.
You need to keep your cool, and have your own will in the relationship. That doesn't mean you should become an oppressive wife-beater, but if you are a limp faggot, she may resent it or exploit it. There are things that she wants that go contrary to what you want, so what do you do about it? You do your thing, then her thing (or vice versa). NOT her thing every time - that's a total failure. Compromising is acceptable as long as you come out with 50%+. It's also possible she has good ideas - you don't need to insist on your stuff solely to be contrarian. But if you appear like a pushover, it's a problem for you and her.
Just think how annoying and disgusting simps are to EVERYONE. Don't become that. Nobody respects that level of spinelessness.
And you don't need prayers, YOU need to do it right.