1. Tyrannical Father: A lot of good concerning patriarchy and monarchy, but sometimes this type (might can imagine your grandfather) can turn cold, distant, and harsh. This leads to,
2. Overbearing Mother: 60's revolution, elevating the weak and feminine, culminating in its peak with wokeness forcing pronouns and trannies in elementary schools. This leads to,
3. Vengeful Son: Represented by the recent Luigi shooter, the fact he was largely sympathized with shows we are in this age now, where Uncle Ted was before his time (only now being appreciated). The anger and rage is often justified against evils done. Young men resenting generations above them and systems who squandered their future.
This cycle left unchecked can help destroy enemies but can lead to chaos and destruction without any final good telos or vision (groypers might be an example, which were helpful in moving the overton window and shaking things up, but no real positive future vision or stability). The best way to deal with this spirit of the age we are entering is to become,
4. Prodigal Son: Following Christ's example of humility, taking self-responsibility even when wronged. Turning all the understandable anger in a positive direction of building towards a better future and community. In all this still defending our people, with violence, if necessary, as any good family does to protect and promote one another.
Rene Girard on Peter's Denial (can see the mimetic contagion working all over the Bible, and in modern society)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-ZeDPBDyZE
The Spirit of the Vengeful Son with Jason Mironchuk (he's who I saw talking about the vengeful son and gets into Girard, there might be better one's but this gets into it).
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLYYUBpbIPA
The correct response to being wronged is justice. The humility you speak about is cowardice and letting evil thrive.
> In all this still defending our people, with violence, if necessary
Defense is, while highly needed, insufficient. They wreak havoc upon us from afar, and we are merely dealing with the local environment, where nobody is guilty, nobody is responsible, nobody is to blame, everyone is just following orders. And you defend yourself against immediate threats ONLY.
At this point inaction leads to our extinction. We are far past the point where inaction is best.