Hey bud, two things. One, he's got a point, don't brag about the supposed advantage because your fellows here who are dutifully pleasuring their wives will think you shilly. Two, your faith in Christ needs to be so solid that you know he will give you the way to obey his law even when lives are at stake. In the liberty of Christ you are immovable, nobody can ever force you again. See USS Liberty's question at scored.co/p/141rVS0mzF.