Male and female minds are two parts of the divine mind.
Men tend to look forward. They tend to think of the future and make plans and contingency plans and such. Men want to think about what's coming, and don't worry so much about the past, unless of course the past has something to say about what is coming.
Women look and live in the past. That's just who they are and how they think. That's why men are so easy to forgive someone and forget but women simply can't do that.
It's important to be aware of this fact in your relationship with your wife. You are not trying to mold her into a "mini-man" but to allow her to express her feminine aspects safely and intelligently.
You might say something like, "I like taking photos but I think it's a bit much to stage them and I think the kids are losing the excitement of the moment." Women like it when you show that you understand them and have empathy for other people's feelings.
Men tend to look forward. They tend to think of the future and make plans and contingency plans and such. Men want to think about what's coming, and don't worry so much about the past, unless of course the past has something to say about what is coming.
Women look and live in the past. That's just who they are and how they think. That's why men are so easy to forgive someone and forget but women simply can't do that.
It's important to be aware of this fact in your relationship with your wife. You are not trying to mold her into a "mini-man" but to allow her to express her feminine aspects safely and intelligently.
You might say something like, "I like taking photos but I think it's a bit much to stage them and I think the kids are losing the excitement of the moment." Women like it when you show that you understand them and have empathy for other people's feelings.
ofc, there's a lot of filler and unnecessary photos, won't argue there, but that's at least the reasoning behind it, and it doesn't bother me any more after realizing this.
When and why does that inclination get exacerbated when woman are out doing activities? It's almost like a memory addiction.
*"Oh! I have to remember this. Oh! I have to remember that! Oh, now this!? This I definitely need to remember!"*
I don't understand. I guess being the creative type, my head is already filled with a lot of my own shit lol
My understanding of the purpose is that they need the photos as props. To present to others as proof that they did something (because they and their friends all lie about everything), and to observe themselves as proof that they are whatever it is they claim to be (popular? prosperous? rebellious?).